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Archived questions from: January, 2007 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

I'm gay and I don't enjoy sex! What can I do to begin enjoying it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

31 January 2007 (M) - Hi i am Gay male of 21, i av had sex many times but the one thing i cant seem to do is enjoy it, never have enjoyed sex at all, and im lost on what i can do to enjoy it, me and my partner have had sex yet, not just because of my problem but because ...

I like this guy and he seems to be showing an interest, but I'm not sure if he's gay or not. How do I get closer to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - I'm a guy. There is this guy in my photography class. He has shown a lot of signs to being gay, like the way he talks, his movements etc. Even a few of my friends have said they thought he was gay. I've caught him looking at me a few times and ...

I am a 22 year old male in love with my best friend of 12 years who is also a 22 year old male!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

30 January 2007 (M) - I am a 22 year old male in love with my best friend of 12 years who is also a 22 year old male. I have never had any feelings like this for another guy, but I think now I might be bi. He claims to be straight, and this is why I am writing to you. We ...

How do I know if she's also from the isle of lesbos?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

30 January 2007 (F) - I am married. However I am attracted to women also. My husband knows about this. Of course it "turns" him on. I have a new friend that I just met who is also married. I would like to do something sexual with her but I don't know if she likes women ...

I'm struggling to tell my family and friends that I am bi...should I or shouldn't I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - Hey, i'm struggling to tell my family and friends that i'm bi. Should i or shouldn't i tell them? and if so how? i know the consequences of me "coming out" to them but it feels wrong lying. What do i do?...

My lesbian fantasy has me greatly disturbed! How do I deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

27 January 2007 (F) - I'm a 57 year old divorced woman, mother of three children. Something happened 2 days ago that took me by complete surprise and I am still numb over it. My ex husband is younger than I am (50) and left me 3 years ago. I am still depressed, and were ...

When he went for my penis I pushed him away! I now regret it..does this mean I am gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

26 January 2007 (M) - hi im confused. about 2 yrs ago i went on holiday with my cousin and 1 nite he started acting gay and wanted 2 do stuff with me. anyway i secretly wanted it but when he started 2 go 4 my penis i pushed him away pretending i didnt want it. we have ...

We hooked up in the dorm and now I am afraid to tell him my true feeligs! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 January 2007 (M) - I'm gay, and my roommate from last year in the dorms was also gay. Within the first 2 weeks of school we were hooking up but not telling anyone about it publicly or even discussing it to ourselves. Things stopped for awhile then all of second ...

I really want to experience some girl on girl action, but my boyfriend doesn't want to take part. Should I cheat on him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

23 January 2007 (F) - Ok..i feel embarassed to be asking advice online so its a good think u don't know who a I am lol.. anyways.. so i am 20 something and I'm straight in a healthy commited relationship. I have no complaints about our sex life.. but here i am ...

I'm not gay but... I have feelings for my teacher!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

23 January 2007 (M) - I am a 16 year old male at school and realised that I have feelings for one of my male teachers and have done pretty much since he started teaching me in september 2005. It's strange because im not gay, in fact I have very normal feelings towards ...

I'm not gay and I date a female, so have I developed feelings for my male teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

22 January 2007 (M) - I am a 16 year old student at an all boys school. But I have developed feelings for one of my male teachers and don't know what to do. I have had these feelings for him for coming up to 2 years now. They started off as just thoughts and now I ...

Dated men all my life but find I am attracted to females. Why is this happening?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

21 January 2007 (F) - i have been with men all my life but i found myself attracted to a female. why?...

How do you walk away from someone you love a lot but can't get along with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6514 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - i have recently broke up from my lesbian lover,i totally love her but we just cant get on,we just dont understand each other,how do you walk away from some1 u totally love but cant be with,no matter how we tried to make things work,we couldnt,now i ...

Fallen for my therapist, but she's never been with a woman before...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6477 days ago

20 January 2007 (F) - Hi there, I wrote a long time ago about being friends with my therapist. We had the agreed time apart between our professional and now private friendship so that it was 'ethical'. We have a great relationship and we really get each other as peopl...

My partner has lost her sex drive and I think she's getting too close to her friend.I don't know what to do. Please help me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - I need a little advice. I have been with my partner for almost 6 years, we got married last summer and I have always believed it was the best thing ever. However things have been a little odd lately. She seems to have lost her sex drive entirely...

We came back from vacation and she dumped me for a man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6515 days ago

19 January 2007 (F) - Gosh people i need help BIG TIME! I am a 24 year old woman and have being dating my best friend whom was also a woman for almost 7years but recently we took a trip together and ever since we came back she dumped me for this guy whom she has bee...

My girlfriend wants us to split up because she says she doesn't love me anymore. I'm broken inside! Should I let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

18 January 2007 (F) - Im 23 and gay. My gf is 30. there is no problem with the age. We've been together for 2 years and 3 months. Things were bad between us the past 7 months. But there was still love between us. now she want to splitup because she says she doesnt love ...

Should I come out to my rough and ready family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

17 January 2007 (M) - i am bi-sexuall and crossdresser i come from an lets say an hardknock family should i come out or should i remain doing it in private...

My gay male partner's ex wife is making his life a misery... still

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

17 January 2007 (M) - I'm 34 yo male and my male partner's ex wife is causing a lot of strain in our relationship. She had an affair and left him, and took the 3 boys away, which really hurt him. He never cheated on her, buried his sexuality for a long time, and was a ...

The prescription is making me sex crazy and my BF isn't hot for the idea

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

15 January 2007 (M) - I have had a few health problems and it was discovered I had low testosterone levels, so I was prescribed a testosterone cream (for health reasons, not sexual reasons). Before this my sex drive was absolutely fine - but now it is bordering on ...

We are a gay couple together 5 years but she doesn't want anything sexual anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

14 January 2007 (F) - Im so lost. My partner and I have been together going on 5 years now. I love her so deeply I find it hard to think of liveing without her and our son. We are lesbians and yes I say our son as we have been together since he was 13 months old and ...

I get turned on by naked chicks more than men.. scared I may become a lesbian!

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

11 January 2007 (F) - I'm a female and not a lesbian but i get turned on seeing women naked than seeing men naked. What the heck is wrong with me!?? This is very unlikely for a woman but i do get excited when i see women's breast and women in bikinis (only those you ...

I'm a woman in love with another woman. But she is denying her feelings. Where do I go from here

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

9 January 2007 (?) - I'm a 45 year old female in love with another female. She is married and loves her husband as a friend but say's she hasn't loved him for 6 years. She said she got married to get away from her step dad. We have been terrible flirts with each other ...

I've fallen in love with my best mates daughter, but I don't want to hurt my gay partner of 16 years. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6520 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - ive been in a gay relationship 4 16yrs and have fallen in love with my best mates daughter im not happy in my relationship and have not been for a few yrs now but we have 2 children together so its stopping me from leaving her as i dont wanna hurt ...

Could I be Bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6525 days ago

8 January 2007 (F) - Ok..This is going to be confusing, but I'll try my best to keep it all short for you guys..:) and girls, of course. Ok..I'm in a relationship with a guy, we've been together for almost 6 years. Recently we were watching a movie about a woman wh...

My bf lied to me and acted as if he didn't care anymore. Then he said he loved me. I'm so confused. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6526 days ago

8 January 2007 (M) - Hello I'm 18 and gay. 8 months ago i gout out of a really bad relationship. It was a kind of relationship that was a very controlling one and the guy i was with hit me at the end for leaving him. Recently i have found myself meeting a new guy who i ...

Gay issues...can anyone tell me their thoughts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

8 January 2007 (M) - Hi. I'm a 20-year-old gay guy from the UK, and something is really bothering me. I'm not 'out' to my family because they are really homophobic (which has made me very depressed and suicidal), but I get really angry when I hear so many stories about ...

I recently came out to my friends... Now I'm in love with one of my friends and not sure if he's just inquisitive... or more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6525 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) - I'm 18 and about 4 months ago, I came out to my group of 5 friends as gay and thankfully, everyone was more than OK with it. Then, about a month after me coming out, we started talking, and he explained to me that he got turned on by men and ever ...

We both can't see us growing old together. Can anyone help us get past this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 January 2007 (M) - My wife informed me that she had kissed one of her female friends three weeks ago. prior to this i had expressed my feelings, that i did not trust this woman and i did not think she was the good friend my wife thought she was. Now i am can't get ...

Am I a lesbian. Please need advice.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6525 days ago

6 January 2007 (F) - hello i am quite young and i do not know if i am a lesbian or straight i really want to be straight but when i see pictures of naked girls i want to have lesbian sex and things does this mean im a lesbian? please help...

He said I brainwashed him into being gay... I have feelings for him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

5 January 2007 (M) - ok...I'm in my sophomore year and I started talking to this guy during my freshman year. This guy seemed like a normal every-day-life boy and we like talking to each other on msn. We never really talk to each other in real life(for some unknown ...

Ended up in bed with my (female) boss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

5 January 2007 (F) - I am in a real dilemma. I am a openly gay lady with a fantastic job. My problem is that I could have just thrown all of that away. I went for a drink with my female boss the other night as she wanted to say a job well done on a project I had comp...