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male
age
30-35,
*asson
writes:hey folks, I am 17 young and live in Sweden. I am originally from Iraq, had been here for 9 months and I have my first love during this while but won't make u bored by the story just my problem is this.Before I met this girl I had a problem of talking to girls cuz always I have this fear of begining to know the girl just the first words like making a subject to chat about, I can't find that subject simply when Ii am near the one I like and it makes me feel so lost and empty head nervous that she begins to think I don't have any feelings for her at all....When I got here in Sweden I met this gorgeous girl which I really loved and I had the guts to talk to her and invite her on a date but finally she rejected me by saying you are not what I am looking for and I admit that I did some things wrong. Now my fear is doubled cuz of the making the subject first and from rejection second, it is even harder cuz there are a few girls in my school that I realy like and really want to talk to but my fear keeps me from making the first move.... help
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (4 October 2008):
hiyah. this is natural! even the cocky over confident guys get nervous when chattin to a girl they like the trick is to be yourslf! girls love that! that way you are being completeley you. you seem to get really nervous about this dont let it get to you or it will show, some girls like a shy guy so if you find somebody you like tell her your insecurities before you go straight into it this way your being honest and she is aware how your feeling. dont judge past girls on new ones though there not all the same and each reacts differently.
Everyone finds it hard to know what to chat about so just use the safe basics such as where shes from what stuff shes into that sort of thing this way youll find if you oppisites or just clickk! build up a frindship before diving straight in for a relationship
Hope this helps a bit best of luck x :)
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