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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a really good friend and I can trust her with anything. but i now have this new boyfriend and she keeps getting jealous of the time i am spending with him. I am always with her and try to tell her that i need to spend time with my boyfriend but she takes a huff and we fall out and make up and she still gets gelouse. how do i spend time with my boyfriend but also keep her happy?? help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): I would have serious conversation with her first and foremost about her behavior. If she doesn't improve at that point I would distance myself from her. Life is too short for all the drama, mayhem, jealousy and the whatnots. Even if she doesn't like your boyfriend, she should still like/love you enough not to allow the negative feelings she has towards him to become between you and her. Maybe it's safe to say that she is jealous, she is not happy for you, thus you may need to reconsider a friendship with her. But first I would talk to her about it. I would also watch her actions very closely---jealousy is nothing to take lightly. People have done (and still do) crazy, foul and evil things due to envy. If jealousy is not curb, it can turn into hatred which equates to murder. Now, I know you are not thinking that far in advice, but that is life...that is reality. So don't sweep this under the rug...have that talk with her asap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): Sometimes you can't make everyone happy. The only thing you need to do is keep yourself, and your boyfriend happy, she will either come round to it and be happy for you or not.
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