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writes:Jermain (brother) 21Natasha (friend)18Selena (brother's Girlfriend)21I met a friend of my older brother about 6 months ago since then I have been in love with her and I can't get her out of my head, it drives me crazy. My older brother has a kid but was kicked out of his girl's house and has been staying with her and some friends.She had a short relationship with my older brother a while back but says she doesn't want to be hurt by him again. Despite this, she is supporting him as he doesn't have a job. I believe more may be going on but I can't be 100% sure. I have hung out with her and admitted my feelings, she says she loves me to but nothing has happened and last night she slept in the same room as my brother. I don't want to get in the way if they are having a relationship but I don't want to get more attached and end up hurting more later. I just need to find out what's going on so I won't be led on only to be rejected in he future. Please help me, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008): Dear Poster
The situation does sound very confusing and I think you are very wise not to want to get in the way if they are having an affair. However, if she is denying that there is something between them, but yet, acts different; vow, remember action sometimes speak louder then words.
I suggest you speak to your brother; ask him what is going on between them.
If he tells you there is nothing; ask him if he thinks it will be okay if you make advances towards her?
However, if he tells you or give you any indication that there is something going on between them, no matter if it is serious or not; then BACK OFF and don't get involved.
I do believe you will find somebody that will value you and want to be with you without playing games.
Speak to your brother and get some answers.
Good luck and remember keep SMILING.
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