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writes:okay.. i am 14 years old and i have just left my highschool and now im in year 10 at a college. i've been in year 10 for only 5 weeks and recently i've been really confused over this boy in my tutor he didnt go to my old school. We had induction day at our new school before the summer holidays and I'm quite sociable so i took the time to get some of the people in my new tutors IM anyway this boy i talked to a bit and he was pleasent and told me a lot about himself and he stuck in my mind quite a lot over the holidays as i thought he was really cool. so i was looking forward to seeing him again but i dont have that much confidence so i didnt think he would even talk to me or remember me. now im really confused because he hardly knows me but he acts as though he's knew me forever? in lessons he's always trying to get my attention flicking rubber asking to borrow something making up nicknames about me. in the first couple of weeks he made up that i fancy someone in our science class which i really dont and whenever i told him i dont he always says dont worry i know you dont i just find it funny? now he calls me a smoker even tho ive never smoked but he does it in a playful way. he will never put his back to me in lessons he turns around just to annoy me and he pokes me alot in the sides. he send me mixed signals he always does a different smile to me than anybody else which confuses me a lot i have 2 years with this boy and im only on the 5th week of knowing him. he gets out of his seat just to get my approval on someting he has done. i told him the other day i hardly know him so why is he teasing me so much and he was very defencive and said you do know me you know what i do every weekend you know my dads name you know i have a dog.. anyway basically he has me very confused and im running out of ideas on what to do im just wonderin if you have any ideas?? many thanks
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reader, ConfusionIcicle +, writes (6 October 2008):
ConfusionIcicle is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBeen off school sick today so havent saw him since Friday.. the worse thing i think ive actually fallen for him :S on friday we werent at school all day as part of our course work our class got to go cinemas on the bus i sat with my some of my mates at the back i sat in the same place there and back he however didnt he first sat in between front-middle and on the way back he moved to sit a lot closer to the back.. he got to the bus before me and he stoppedin the isle of the bus towards the back and he wouldnt let me pass he mirror imaged me and wouldnt give in so i decided to tickle him in the sides (like he does to me) and he done a childish giggle and sat down. I really dont think he like likes me so the only other explanation is he dislikes/hates me and that must be why he trys to annoy me so much. im getting really confused and im hoping someone with reply as im hoping for some advice on what i should do tomorrow when i got back to school i want to take a new approach on the situation but im just not sure which one is the right one. Also theres this boy in my class that i already know likes me (heaven knows why as i think im a tad insane right now) but anyhoo he's quite gud friends with the *teasing* boy and im going to admit i do try and flirt - only a bit though - with the guy who likes me just to see *Teasing* Boys reaction. Usually its just a glare in my direction and he goes quiet ? anyway what can i do to get *teasing* boy to either admit he hates me or likes me also i 4got to add in my last message when he is in front of me in any lessons he writes in the back of his planner something and gets my attention and puts it up in front of him for me to read.. so far its been a -My name- is gay then a smiley face and just other random rubbish. Also something i forgot to mention was in science when the tables are set out so me and him shud be facing back to back he turns around pokes me in the sides then twizzles back round anyway last lesson he was trying to get on my nerves purposly and he said im your best bud arent i and thats when i thought hold on something is definately not right here.. i hardly know this boy im about the only girl he talks to and he tells me he likes annoying me because its funny then he turns round and says that! is there any eye signals i should look out for? bet u all think im so sad and at times so do i but at the moment this is all im thinking about. Thanks A-lot x
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reader, ConfusionIcicle +, writes (5 October 2008):
ConfusionIcicle is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim not sure though i don't think that im his type at all. i dont think im anything special so why would he but i dont understand why he makes such an effort to talk to me and he seems to always seek my approval. thanks for your reply though this is really doing my head in trying to figure out how he feels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008): I think this boy is just teasing you he fancys you loads but is not ready to admit it yet,you need to incourage him to talk to you about his true feelings
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