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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i met a guy about 3 months and that night we began texting each other and talking on msn. we got on really well but the next week i went on holiday but not before we arranged to go to a gig together. throughout the holiday he emailed me and when i got home we went out together (but by this time he had got a gf) and had a really good time. since then we have spoken by text, msn or face to face almost every day. we get on so well and can talk for hours. he never talks about his gf, he teases me, compliments me and is a naturally friendly and flirty person. he says things like 'you need a guy whos like you' then says how similiar we are. we always talk about our private jokes and our conversations can be about anything and everything. he has made me a bracelet, burnt me a cd and drawn me a picture. we always have a really good laugh but i cant tell whether hes just naturally friendly and flirty or is interested in me at all? help please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008): thankyou to the reader above, you asked what it is that i feel and unfortunately i really really like him, more than i have anyone else before which makes it difficult as i dont want to ruin a relationship but i would like to know what he feels.
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (4 October 2008):
 first of all, you have to look at how you feel about him. Do you like him as a friend, or are you starting to have more feelings for him and like him as a boyfriend.
If you look at how you feel, and realize that you like him a lot more than a brother or friend, then i think you need to back off the relationship and give it some space.
He has a girlfriend, and out of respect for their relationship you have to stay out of the picture.
If you stay in, you will always be the "2nd" girl.
So if you want to be his number one girl, do the no contact rule.
If he questions you why you are advoiding him, tell him he has a girlfriend and it's not a good idea you spend this much time with him. He is probably young, and wanting to have fun and not take anything serious. He enjoys your company. But you have to look at what you want.
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