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writes:Well im 14 and There is this guy (15 years old) who ive liked for a few years and i still really like him.. We stoped talking last year when he found out i liked him then things were sorted out in May between us but we didn't start talking until last week.We went on this school trip with the english department to see Romeo and Juliet and we started talking on the bus and at school etc. That isnt the problem this is...The day after the trip my friend * Hannah came up to me and said that my other friend * Emma was flirting with him when she wasn't. And he even said that she wasn't. Hannah fell out with Emma a while ago and since im both of their friends im stuck in the middle im the one whos getting it. Emma is fine its Hannah who how would you put it tells me off.She has a problem with me being friends with her. And when i told her i went up town at with Emma our friend Andrew and him she said to me "I guess you never got a word in" then stormed off. Shes going through a rough time now and i don't know what to do.I'm helping her get through stuff but im fed up with her "problem" with me being friends with Emma and telling me that Emma was flirting with the guy i like.I know for a fact that he still remembers everything from last year and im confused about my feelings.I am careful what i say to her and Emma but especially to the guy i like. She can't handle the fact i am friends with her.And she has brought the guy i like into this (although he doesn't know it) so i won't be friends with her. Help please
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reader, chandra Mcmillan +, writes (8 October 2008):
 Friends can cause more problems than anything else especially in your teens. I can really only say that if your 2 friends have fallen out you should not feel like you are stuck in the middle. Spend time with them both and tell them to their faces. "I know you dont like Emma but I am still her friend so I will see her but I am your friends 2" If your friends do not understand you are better with out them.
As for the boy you like trust me you fall in love a lot at your age just keep being his friend and see if anyting changes.
I HOPE I HAVE HELPED
GOOD LUCK
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