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*nonymous080591
writes:i am so deeply in love with my mom girlfriend and i know that sounds a little crazy but i never thought that it could happen..i have always been attracted to both man and woman but woman more so and i when i met her it was something that i just loved about her now my mom has had more then one girlfriend in the past years and this is the only one i really was attracted to it just happend one day we jus started talking on the phone and i was telling her things about me and how i felt about woman and she listend to me i never had anyone pay attention to me like she did so as time went on both our feelings started to grow for each other so this recent new year i brought it in with her i stayed over her house and she just kissed me and from that day no one could'nt tell me anything..about us i just knew it was me and here and till this day we still doing what we do on the low i just wanna come out so bad...but what will my family think of me now? thats all that keep running through my head how will my mom react to the situation? and me being her daughter...but sometimes i think because of my age she look beyond me at times like that dont hurt me..it do but she always tell me that we gotta remember the situation that we in but she love me...and she is 26 years older then me.?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Cyg79 +, writes (9 October 2008):
 Your last paragraph is a bit confusing. You seem to be asking a few things, I would say take them one at a time. If you want to come out, start with a close family member first or maybe just talk to someone your close too,other then your mom's girlfriend. If you don't want to do that there are lots of resources online and off that can offer perspective and a listening ear. Now back to mom's girlfriend, first is your mom still dating her? Personally, I would say she's off limits if she is dating your mom or anyone for that matter. If she wants a relationship with you, she needs to have no other such commitments to others. Second how do you feel about the situation? Are you ok with things, is this relationship equal? As for age, only you can decided if that is an issue for you.
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