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female
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30-35,
*een000
writes:Hey everyoneSo among the guys im a pretty hot girl that they all like and also everyones best friend. When i was a little girl i was abused by a friend of the family and i cant seem to understand it but it has afected my ability to have a relationship with any guy. It has always been one night stands with pretty bad guys...getting drunk, partying all night long...But luckily ive always always had my guy best friend there for me, i dont even i deserve him, hes too gd for me.Hes verry protective over me, hes there every single time i mess up, no matter how badly it is.Hes so sweet, always telling me how i dersve better, that i can have any guy i want nd still go with the assholes...and i seriously have NO idea how but he fell in love with me ( the disaster magnet ), just doesnt make sence.I think i realy do care about him too, i think i like him ( love is too strong of a word for me)When he takes me in his arms, kisses me on the cheek nd tells me how stubborn and irresponsible i am, i fall for him but the probleme is that i just cnt be with him, my heart wont let me after wat hapenned to me during all those year with the family friend....I see now that it hurts him everytime, every night he sees me with another guy but its kinf of just part of my nature now, its me....When ever a guy starts to realy care about me, i try to cause a few problemes, make them hate me nd get them as far as I can from me ( i know it sounds totaly crazy) and my best friend knows that so when he told me that he loved he made sure to tell me that nomatter how big i mess up he will always love me and never let go of me....Wat can i do when i so badly want to be with him nd just cnt?? I know i will have to move on with my life one day or another and have a stable relationship but now doesnt feel like the right time for it...just not ready
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reader, RON_499  +, writes (4 October 2008):
 he seems like a very nice guy you are just going to try your best to get over this fear and well try to forget about that experience.the more u think about it the worse this problem will become.this guy is very nic e and well u may never get anyone like him all your life so i suggest that u go to him and tell him that u love him.its okay for u to get into a relationship and well he will be there with you all the time wont he.so don't leave him or yourself hanging and go for it.
best of luck!!!!!
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