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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey this is something i really need help on so please answer asap as my bm (best mate) who i always turn to for advice i cant get hold o :(well the thing is me and my ex b/f broke up nearly 1 month ago and then i got with some 1 new, i still had feeling for my ex but i wanted to move on cos hr was a user and player and he hurt me, he told me he still lovedme and asked for me bk i said no, me and my new b/f have become pretty distant towards each other since we got together we were closer as just mates to be honst.a few days after we broke up he decided he liked my bm, but she liked his bm so tht wasnt gonna work, then he turned round to me and said i didnt really like her anyway you've always bin the one for me, i still love you, and now today, hes asking for me back.i want to say no but the thing is i think i am still in love with him :/, i was thinking of dumping my current boyfriend, but not getting bk with my ex just to have some time to think, but then i dont wont to cos i love my current boyfriend but i dno im confsed, i dont want to dump my current b/f and then ruin or friend ship or dump him and regret it but dont get him bk, and i dont want to dump him to get bk with my ex and regret that, or dump him and get with my ex and my ex play me again. i dont even no anymore im really depressed with life at the min, im s confused and ughh.When i was with my ex i felt so happy and alive my life was on an up, (apart from a few argument sorta things not even real argmnts) it was a happy stage in my life.then wen we broke up i was depressed then i got with my new bf and was happy for a while then my ex told me he still loved me just as i thought i was moving on and then i felt for him again and now just dno wot to do.my ex bf always talked to me and cared for me and told me how much he loves me constantly but my new bf, we have been together about 4 weeks tomorow and i think he told me he loved me more before we got together and we hardly speak much anymore :/im confused i need helpwhat should i do??? please anyone ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): Go with your heart. Look deep down and think about who you would want to be with, deep down you know this answer, its just the matter of putting it into action which is the hardest part! goodluck!
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