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Archived questions from: January, 2018 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My mother favors my nephew over my son

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - My parents try to include us at some dinners but it always seems it's an after thought (calling us over for dinner the last min)and only if my bros fam is there too, they see my bro, his wife and kids every wkend. We live 15min away and they never ...

Why does my little brother pretend to be gay if he's straight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - I'm much older than my little brother but we're very close and he tells me everything. Recently he came out to me as gay. The thing is I don't believe him. I'm in full support of the gay community, I have lots of gay friends, go to gay rallies and ...

My family wants me to forgive our dying father for the abuse but I can't!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - Am I a demon for not caring that my dad is dying from cancer and i want nothin to do with it or him or those who care about it. I've posted about my dad with other accounts which I have deactivated. So I would just give a summary of what he did. ...

My sister wont listen, when this guy takes her for everything I am not going to help her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

30 January 2018 (M) - My sister met this so called great guy in November and put him in the friend bracket, so she said. February of 2017 after a short relationship with another guy didn’t work she started dating this so called great guy. In a week of dating she brought ...

How can I help my sister who has spiralled into depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2437 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - My sister had faced reality and spiraled into depression. I urged her to seek therapy (not just because of this last episode), but in the meantime she needs support. How can I help her more? Some time ago she had a month long fling with a guy...

Partner has been cheating with my best friend for the past five years.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

29 January 2018 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2009 till now we still ...

Formerly stingy uncaring husband has suddenly changed. Is it because he will be losing his job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2487 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - I have been married for seven years and my husband has been very stingy with me and my kids (his step kids). We hve one child together. I have complained to him of his lack of involvement in his step kids life but he just ignore. Somehow i have ...

He’s very affectionate towards everyone! Does this sound strange?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2487 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - Hi there I started seeing a guy around 3 months ago. One of the things i love about him.is that he is very very affectionate towards me. At gome and out in public. He sometimes says to be before we go out'can i kiss you a lot tonight in publi...

Is there anything wrong with my sister and I being nude around each other?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2488 days ago

27 January 2018 (M) - I am 20 years old and my sister is 18 years old. Our parents are usually not home: my dad is a long distance 18 wheeler driver and since my sister graduated from high school last year, my mom often goes with our dad. Both my sister and I hat...

I moved to be with my son and his family. They want me to leave, I'm miserable and don't have the money to leave

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2488 days ago

27 January 2018 (F) - For years my son has been asking me to move to the state where he resides with his second wife her 4 children one which they share the other 3 has different fathers. One is handicapped severely. I had gone bankrupt and was a hair being evicted so I ...

Her confession, while turning me on, makes me angry and I feel betrayed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

27 January 2018 (M) - Where do I start? My wife and I have been married for close to 17 years and have 2 young daughters aged 10 and 8. We are a happy couple are most probably enjoying the best period of our married life. My wife is hot and still looks amazing......

What can I say to my MIL to make her realize that I have had enough of her treatment

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

25 January 2018 (F) - Hello everyone.. i came here to get some advice on my current situation dealing with my in laws as we live together. They are kind hearted people but i always feel suffocated near them especially the mother in law. Some detail that i can descr...

Was it wrong of me to intoduce him to my kids so soon?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2490 days ago

24 January 2018 (F) - I started dating my ex husband when I was 15, he was the only guy I dated. We got married shortly after high school and had five kids together. I love him but neither of us were really in love with each other for years but we had kids and we were ...

My boyfriend's mother is a little too involved in our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2490 days ago

24 January 2018 (F) - Hey everyone wondering if anyone can offer some friendly advice on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend about a year and a half although we split in the summer for a couple months due to not getting on and silly little arguments. My boyfriend ...

Is it wrong of me to say I would leave my girlfriend if she became an addict? Is it right of her to say that I can't keep things that might "tempt" her around?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2491 days ago

23 January 2018 (F) - I was having a conversation with my girlfriend the other day about her being upset because her brothers have started smoking weed again. I have no problem with weed. I've smoked it before myself, but apparently for them it starts them on harder ...

Its to the point where anything with my family causes problems between my husband and I

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2491 days ago

22 January 2018 (F) - So my sister and I have never got on, even when we were kids. Now days we have little to do with one another, we have to get together occasionally because, you know, family, but we never talk, or have a conversation unless i'm being made fun of (I'm ...

A guy I was dating said how hot my sister was, and I dumped him the same night! Am I overreacting?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2489 days ago

22 January 2018 (F) - Hey, everyone. So I met a guy a few weeks ago and we have been on 3 dates total. I enjoyed my time with him and he's quirky in the way that he thinks and he can come off like an ass, not in a malicious way, but it intrigues me and he has treated me ...

How do I handle troublesome ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2493 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - My boyfriend had a son from a previous relationship. We have 2 children together now and one on the way. This ex of his won't let him see his other child, and talks a lot of nonsense about him on social media, whether it's directly or indirectly. I ...

I feel I owe this married man an apology

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2493 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Hello Aunts, I met this man sometime in 2015 when i was on a temporal job in another state in the country. He is Married with a son. When we first met, he was attracted to me and we pretty get along so well. He dropped hints about dating me bu...

I just found out my brother is HIV positive and I'm extremely worried about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2497 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - I am 35 and my brother is 31. I found out last week that his chronic diarrhea was misdiagnosed as tropical sprue, but was actually HIV. I am from the caribbean so my family is still there, but I live abroad in the States. I have been for more than ...

Am I an evil step mother?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2499 days ago

14 January 2018 (F) - I am a stepmother who will be inheriting my husband Home instead of his adult child. I want responses on whether * am the evil stepmom everyone fears. Here is my story. My husband was a widower when we married,that was 14 years ago. His daughter ...

I’ve been the primary breadwinner for most of our relationship!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2502 days ago

13 January 2018 (F) - I have been dating my partner for 2 years now. Before getting together I expressed to him that as a single parent with big goals I need someone motivated who will pull their weight and he said that was easy. At the time he was a manager at a loca...

How do I convince my parents that I'm an adult? They have my entire college schedule mapped out and a GPS on my phone!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2482 days ago

13 January 2018 (F) - I'm new in here and I've tried to help others and so far I hope I'm doing a good job. But now, I need some advice on how to convince my parents that I am an adult and deserve more privacy and freedom. I'm a college student and to be honest, I'...

We live with his parents they heard us fight and now I'm ashamed to see them

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

13 January 2018 (F) - Hi.. we are asian married couple living with my in laws. We married several months ago and been together for 5 years before. My husband isnt perfect, but he is the most approriate man for me. When we first marry we are so happy and he is protec...

I need help breaking the happy news to my partner!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - Hiya everyone I’ve been with my partner for 4 years we have a 2 year old son together the problem is I have just found out I’m pregnant which I’m over the moon about but the problem is he doesn’t want any more children ever he has said I haven’t ...

His email to his brother hurts more than his affair

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2491 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 3 years in January, he cheated on me with someone I knew in October. In our bed When I was away for 2 days. When I came back he acted like nothing had happened but I knew in my heart and then my friends told ...

I feel too shamed to talk to my family

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2501 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - Sorry this is a lot but I need to get it off my chest as its too shameful to tell my family and friends. I met an ex vet on Instagram. We fell in love through each others art. He lives in the US and I live in the UK. There is a 20 year age gap betw...

I caught my partner out in a lie, what is he hiding?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

9 January 2018 (F) - I have a partner, we do not live together but have been together for 5 years, we are what I call companions, i stay at his and he stays at mine, we also like time alone. He has female friends not a problem but this one friend he told me was ill, he ...

Did I speak out of turn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2506 days ago

9 January 2018 (M) - Hello. My friend has a son and downplays his eating habits. It’s not serious according to her as it’s just a learning disability. He is 10 years old and only eats fast food, usually French fries, pastries or chicken tenders. I’ve seen this almost ...

The conversation will revolve around babies, should I suck it up and go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2502 days ago

9 January 2018 (F) - I am a happily married 37 yo childfree woman. Next sunday two friends of my hubby - invited us to lunch. His pals are both married, so we’re talking about lunch with two couples. One couple has a three year old very lively boy and another has just...

Events of 30 years ago still hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

9 January 2018 (F) - my husband had an emotional affair with my mom, and this went on for four years, as she died in an auto accident. He claims sure was fun to be with and that all they did was kiss, no sex. #1 how could it last for this long with non sex, # how can ...

He ended it after 15 years and I can't move on

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2506 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - hi my name is carol and upto 3 years ago i was havein an afair it lasted 15years but one day he said he couldet see me any more but never realy said why i was deversteted and still am thort after all them years i desevred better i still miss him and ...

How can I have sex without feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2509 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - Why can’t I handle intimate relationships? When I get intimate with a man it’s like my power and common sense go away I feel so weak and vulnerable. I look at my ex”s pics on social media after a year and a half and I see him with another woman and ...

My husband raised a boy as his own, but now he is 19 I don't want him included in our family!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2494 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - Hi Just need a bit of advice...my husband met a woman who already had a child 17 years ago. My husband then helped bring him up, however when this child become 13/14 he came into a lot of trouble and trouble has followed him since. Oliver no...

I want marriage and he wants kids!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2510 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - I am a 28 years old female who already has a child with my ex boyfriend I have never been married , i am now in a relationship with a 37 years old man who does not have a child we do not live together and we are in a long distance relationship. ...

How do I stop feeling inadequate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

4 January 2018 (F) - Ever since I was little, I was always in my older siblings shadow. I've healed a lot, but I still find myself inadequate compared to their successes despite having my own. I was always compared, sibling has a better social life, higher education, ...

He's in jail, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

4 January 2018 (F) - So, back in March 2017 I started meeting with a guy I’ve liked for ages! We met about 4 years ago because he is my cousins best friend and so he attended a lot of family events and things like that. We have flirted with each other for a long time ...

Uh Oh! My girlfriend and I are related!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

2 January 2018 (M) - My girlfriend and I are related, found out after 30 years but are great great grandparents are cousins??..I love her to death and we have a 4 month year old daughter but what should we do?...

How do I get back on my feet? Can I turn my life around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2514 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - how do I get back on my feet - can this be done? Three years ago I hung out with the in crowd and got myself in financial debt - I was making money and also spending money - long story short I got unexpectedly laid off and I had to move back home . ...