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Archived questions from: December, 2018 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Should I ask an 18 year old out or is she too young for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2180 days ago

31 December 2018 (F) - I’m a single mum with a toddler and after over two years of being single i decided last week to put myself back out there. I’m bisexual and while on a dating site I started talking to a girl who I like. My problem is that I’m nervous about getting ...

He wont have sex with me and prefers porn.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2173 days ago

31 December 2018 (F) - We have had a rough relationship. 2 years+. Hes cheated, and always put me in competition. Now we have a baby and he loves him so much, but he cheated on me when i was pregnant. Its been an abusive relationship ever since the 5th month. He ...

My husband is abusive and I wonder what I'm doing wrong to provoke him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2179 days ago

31 December 2018 (F) - Hello, I have been married to my husband for 5 years. We have been together for 12 years. We have a 11 year old together. I so have 3 older kids. But he normally only tells people he has one child. He has always had a temper but it has gotten worse. ...

I've met a nice guy but my cheating daddy wants me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2181 days ago

30 December 2018 (F) - Please help me I am in such a dilemma a few months ago me and my baby daddy split up due to a lot of issues in which one of them was him cheating I am not sure if it was physical but I know for sure girls were calling him and texting him and he was ...

Accused of being antisocial for turning down a guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2179 days ago

30 December 2018 (F) - My dad loves to accuse me of being anti social and saying "that's why you have no friends". We were at a friends place and there is a single guy there who I see a couple times a year. We aren't friends (acquaintances) and we do not share interests. ...

Should I cut off my mom from my life without giving her an explanation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2183 days ago

29 December 2018 (F) - Guys... this new year I’m going to cut off my mom from my life. I have written a question regarding our relationship before and things have been going downhill from there. She has been mean to me and my family all year long. I have a sister w...

My new job demands much more of my time! Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2184 days ago

28 December 2018 (F) - Three weeks ago I started a job in my career path that I’ve been praying for for a long time now. Great location for me, benefits, union, pay is good, the whole nine yards. I feel so overwhelming blessed for me and my family. The only downside to ...

My step children's mother is creating problems

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2182 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles I need some advice please. Not sure where to go from here. I have 2 beautiful step children. They have just got back from a once in a lifetime holiday with their Mum. We didn’t know about this holiday at all as the...

How can I ask my family to back off from my pregnant girlfriend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2184 days ago

27 December 2018 (M) - I’ve been dating my gf for 6 months. My family met her for the first time over the holidays and they weren’t very welcoming. When we met she had just found out she was pregnant. She also has a two year daughter. She left her ex because he was chea...

My abusive father has turned the family against us. Does anyone have any words of support/similar stories?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2181 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - Hi, Im just seeking stories of others if anyone has gone through something similar. It would be comforting to hear, as I know there is little to be done about my current family situation. Last year I decided to cut contact with my father due to hi...

Should I give her a Christmas present for her son.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2187 days ago

23 December 2018 (M) - Over the past couple of months i have been getting to know a really nice woman that i have met locally to where i live, she is 37, and im 42. We are taking things really slow at the moment as we both have a lot going on at present. Things are ...

I'm really sad and discouraged with my life

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2185 days ago

23 December 2018 (M) - Anyone have any advice for someone in late 20’s. I have studied to high level, but don’t have job anymore. It’s been half a year, and I simply cannot afford anything. Friends kindly ask why I don’t have work yet,l. I guess that’s their way of ...

Is it possible to love 2 women the same way at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2186 days ago

23 December 2018 (M) - When i was 13 i dated this girl, who we will call girl "A". After half a year she broke up with me. 3 years later i started dating one of her close cousin, which we will call girl "B". we ended up talking online and eventually getting together. Yes ...

He wants to spend the rest of his life with me but without marriage.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2186 days ago

22 December 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We have a child together. We are both divorced. We both have children from the marriages. We are in a serous relationship. He has talked about us getting a home together. He has said more than ...

I love him but since his massive weight gain don't find him attractive enough for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2188 days ago

21 December 2018 (F) - Hi, okay so I really hope I don’t come across as been an absolute bitch here but I could really use some help!! So. My partner has put on a lot of weight. A good 4/5 stone! He was around 12 stone when we met. He’s 6ft3 so was really slim, I’ve alw...

The gossip has taken all the good that I do and turned me into nothing.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2131 days ago

21 December 2018 (F) - Hey Cupids, My questions are about moving on after divorce/separation. I met my beautiful lover earlier this year when he was in an unhappy marriage. We started seeing each other but feelings were serious enough that he left his wife after 7 wee...

How do I accept that he’s moved on with his new girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

18 December 2018 (F) - I am struggling to get past the fact that my ex-husband (of 20 yrs) has met a woman from another country on a dating website whom he has visited 3 times and holidayed in Europe with. We have a child who he is supposed to have for part of Christma...

I’m having trouble forgiving and forgetting! How do I get past this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2187 days ago

18 December 2018 (F) - I posted about a month or so back about a situation with my boyfriend. In the mist of an argument i took him to his old roommates place to check his mail and after about ten minutes inside i finally walked up to find out what was taking him so long ...

Should your spouse be prioritized over your adult children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

18 December 2018 (M) - My question, Should your spouse come 2nd (God is always 1st) or your adult children? My wife's daughter (my stepdaughter) is a full on alcoholic/drug addict. For over 3yrs now I have delt with the constant absence of my wife because her daughter ...

Why did he still help his supposedly awful ex despite whatever she did to him? Is he lying to me about his feelings for her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2193 days ago

17 December 2018 (F) - Hi, i hope i can get some advice here to move on in my life. I have been with my boyfriend coming up two years, we get on well and i feel we are compatible. but there is a problem. My boyfriend went to America when he was 19 years old, stayed with...

What is my sis in law suggesting here? That I'm a loser??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2197 days ago

13 December 2018 (F) - Was this fb post directed at me? and my “ettiquette” in talking with my sis in law and 11 yr old neice when I see them over new year? They live 2 hours from me in a small town. Im driving to see them in early Jan, sometime when its ok for ...

I wonder if forgiveness is the key to moving forward

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2200 days ago

12 December 2018 (F) - I, like many grew up with a toxic family. My parents where not there and pretty much abandoned me. I have struggled alot of my life due to this but also the last few years I have done alot of work and had therapy on this. This has made things easier ...

How can I approach faith and dating ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2200 days ago

11 December 2018 (F) - I realize my question is towards faith and love but I wanted to come here since I got fantastic advice during my abusive relationships. I have been in what I would say emotionally neglectful combative home - my youth was always comparative to what ...

Am I being unrealistic. Is it too late to change my thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2202 days ago

11 December 2018 (F) - I really hope that men in particular won’t take this question. Personally because obviously it’s not aimed at anyone and I realise that there must be good men in the world but I want to ask if any women have experienced similar to me and how they ...

How do you cope with losing a parent or a loved one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2199 days ago

10 December 2018 (F) - So, about a year ago I lost my father to stage 4 cancer. I cry and have break downs, when I see his photo, or if I see a video of him, or if hear a voicemail he left. So, now I avoid looking at his photos and things that remind me of him. It’s just ...

I am thinking of taking our 2 month old son and leaving my husband. How can I get him to man up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2202 days ago

8 December 2018 (F) - I regret married to my husband. I regret ignoring all the red flag about him. I regret i dont take the advice from my friends and aunties here. Now im living miserably everyday worrying about what will he did. He is manipulative, selfish and path...

New boyfriend gets upset because I wont let him move in.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2204 days ago

6 December 2018 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now. Previously married for 5 years. Our relationship has been rocky to say the least but we have come to a crossroads suddenly. He lives with his mom and they are getting evicted. He isn’t working at ...

Do you think it’s wrong to talk to my mom about the breast augumentation she had and has hidden from me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2205 days ago

5 December 2018 (F) - Do you think it’s wrong to talk to my mom about the breast augmentantion she had and has hiden from me? My mom since I know her she is “strugling financially” she never has money, ever gives me enough money, I mean the most she gave me when gro...

Am I being too harsh on my 17 year old daughter? How do I deal with her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2208 days ago

3 December 2018 (F) - I am having trouble with my 17 year old daughter. We've recently returned from a trip to Europe and are jet lagging. It being the weekend, I texted her at 11am to see what she wanted for lunch. She replied that she was still sleeping. At 2pm she ...

My boyfriend of 3 years doesn't want to have children. I dream of having them

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

2 December 2018 (F) - Hey everyone. So ive been with my boyfriend a year now and we started talking about kids i commented how good he is with his nephews and how hed make a great dad one day to which he said he doesnt want any children. This crushed me as he knew from ...

Child abuse has left me unable to connect with others

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

1 December 2018 (F) - I've always had problems showing affection, all i have inside me is hatred and anger. I've suffered from abuse since i was a child, and it have affected me till this day. I still live with my parents, I'm a great student but i just can't stand my...