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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Why are my siblings turning their backs on our mother now that she is sick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - DearCupid,I am a middle aged young woman who put her life aside because I have one living parent and now she is slightly sick she's a diabetic and had to have her legs taken off she also have other health issues going on.I am not the only child I ...

How can I look out for my foster son?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I fostered a child three years ago, and the child is now 6. He was abandoned by his parents when he was a baby. I got him before I got married. Am now married and my husband has had a hard time accepting the boy. He is just plain cold towards him, ...

We have sex 3 times a week, what can I do to boost my sex drive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - Hello dear cupid I have a serious issue. ..I am 22 and my fiance is 27 we have a great relationship outside of the sex department. ...we have a handsome 9 month old, truly faithful to one another, and pursuing to be successful for our family...the ...

I think my friend has Post Traumatic Stress disorder stemming from sexual abuse as a child. It's affecting her life and I have no idea what to do about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - I think my friend is suffering from post traumatic stress disorder. She was sexual abused as a little girl by both her brother and her uncle on separate occasions. Over the course of our relationship I kind of fell in love with her, much to her ...

Am I wrong to feel a little bit hurt by this? I spent 5 years letting his mother say what she wanted to me and after I finally stand up for myself he goes round like nothing happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles Got a problem, I've been with my bf now for 5 years his family have never really accepted me in all this time and thing got worse when I went into an apprenticeship rather than go to university. My bf moved in with me and my f...

Any other females that have been through these feelings of the clock ticking have any advice? Or any males that could give me advice from their viewpoint?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I'm 27 and I'm not not married, finishing school with my graduate degree in 2 years and by then I will be close to 30. It's starting to scare me only because I always thought that I would have met the right guy by now and all my friends are in ...

I thought we were close so why has my cousin told everyone but me that she's expecting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 June 2013 (?) - So I lived with my cousin for months, we always were laughing and having a great time and we told each other everything and then I moved back "home" which is in another state and since she hasn't really talked to me. I dont know what changed, I ...

Should I stay or go? My husband has no clue how to love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Should I stay or should I go? Married 11yrs, together for 21. we've always been off and on. Only stayed cause I thought it was the right thing to do. He is a good man, we have 3 children 7,9,11. But he's never been "with" me, "for" me. we've never ...

PMS blues. Should I talk to my mom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 years old, and I suffer from awful PMS. I've had my period for about two years now, and despite hours of research, I can't seem to find any information on how to aid my symptoms. I get severe breast tenderness. I can't even wear a shirt ...

Single, pregnant, and moving out from my parents. Where do I start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - hello everyone, well i am 7 months pregnant and single and soon im going to start my maternity leave as i work full time and i get abut 8.90 an hour. i currently live at home however i would like to get my own place as we don't have enough spac...

Being the peacemaker in this disfunctional family has stressed me -- I want out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Ok so my parents have been married for 17 years now and let's just say it hasn't been good times at all and i had to grow up FAST. My parents started their family very young and got married because of it (as many people do today). My fathe...

Help dealing with teenagers in a blended family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - My fiance' and I have a blended family. We have 7 kids residing in our home. We have a wonderful relationship the two of us that is. However,sometimes the kids cause friction between us. Last year my 17 year old son and my fiance' couldn't see eye ...

Sister in law won't take care of her kids and my husband and I are expected to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - My husband and I are expecting our first child. It seems as if my MIL likes to blame me for her grandkids misfortunes in life.His sister and the kids dad wants to party and MIL wants us to care for the kids. It's putting a strain on our marriage as ...

It feels like his family doesn't accept me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - Hi anties and uncles. I just want to understand this part I'm dating this man for 7 years and we have just bought a house together, I found it so strange when it comes to my in-laws. It seems as if they don't love me for instance when I'm not at our ...

I am trying not to make my boyfriend choose between his mom and I but I really have to wonder about our future.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - Hello everybody! I have been dating my boyfriend (let's call him Mark) for almost three years now, and he is a wonderful person. He is always doing nice things for me, and he is so considerate. The issue is not him, but rather, his mother. I...

How can I change the relationship with my mother? I need her but its complicated between us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - Hi, I stopped talking to my mum about 16 months ago, long story short, shes carried a lot of emotional baggage with her, since she split up with my dad over 20 years ago. She hasn't been with anyone since, and i am an only child, she has tried he...

Would it be alright to buy presents for the son of my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

24 June 2013 (M) - I dated a lady for 20 months, I got her with one child a son. Her son loved me a lot and now we broke up a month ago and pn the 30th pf june is this boy's birthday. What I will like to be help on is, can I buy this Boy some presents for his birthday ...

Single Mom, please help - why is my daughter behaving like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I am a single mom... I have a daughter who is 13 yrs of age. For the past year her behavior has been really unusal. She walks around the house with a robe all of the time...And its like 80 something degrees, it seems she uses this robe as a clutch s...

Take a Break or Break Up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4199 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months next week. From the start of the realationship, he really through himself in: I became apart of the family fast, he told me he loved me into a few weeks of being together. We had some really great times, he ...

Has she just broken up with me? I can't get in touch with long distance girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4199 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - I used to have/currently have (really dont know) a girlfriend whom I love a lot. We were in a relationship from past 4 months and everything was going on good between us. We use to chat every day because she is far away from me, on phone, social n...

I'm falling in love with my older brothers girl friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - Well let's start of by saying that I'm falling in love with my older brothers girl friend, I don't know why. But I just started to feel some thing for her. I don't know what it is because, I don't wan't to say it to her because I might p off my ...

My boyfriend has a very weird relationship with his cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4198 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - I apologize in advance if I sound silly and immature. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years, and everything goes great aside from a few fights here and there. Keep in mind that he's 19, and I'm 18. One thing I've notic...

How much, if any, of the insurance money I got after my father passed away should I be expected to give to my guardian?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - Hey everybody I'm getting $37,000 from insurance because my dad passed away, and I live with a guardian. I've been living with her for a year. How much should I give her because I know she wants some of it, she asked me if I was gonna give her...

After 4 years silence and no support, my son's dad and his family want to get involved .... how should I handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - I had my son when I was 17 and his father has never been around. We were not in a relationship, it was more friends with benefits. I wasn't surprised he didn't want to play a part but I was hurt. I struggled like mad, and only this year have I been ...

B/f doesn't think its a big deal to have a kid with another woman. It bothers me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - I am 17, 2nd year college, while my boyfriend is 26, already a professional. i met him at school when he was tasked to be the substitute teacher for our class since our teacher is still on leave. he handled the class very good that he draws all our ...

Is it appropriate to give the mother an anniversary gift?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a quick question having more to do with etiquette. I've been exclusively dating a guy for a couple of months and we've hit it off extraordinarily well, so we are pretty serious about each other. We're in our late twenties and his parents ...

I've been seeing a man who was a friend before we began dating and I'm devastated that he just ended it after 7 weeks of dating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - Hi people. Just need some straight forward advice,ill give you some background,I am a single mother out of a messy relationship about 2 years ago. Ive come to the time now,where I feel I can move on. Ive been seeing a man who was my friend before we ...

What am I supposed to do to reassure my brother that NOTHING is ever going to happen between me and this boy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - A few days ago I asked advice about my brother being too overprotective and bossy about me talking to his friend that he introduced me to because apparently he was flirting with me and I with him, when my only intentions where to be friends. Hes a ...

Why did she wait 2 years to break up with me after our talk about having children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

20 June 2013 (M) - My girlfriend of 13years (fiance for 3 of those) left me 2months ago. Its a really tricky one this. We always agreed on not having kids. We were very happy together. No fighting, no cheating. We always gave one another space when we needed to do our ...

In an LDR, his live-in son asks for money, will this relationship last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - im in a long distance relationship he comes for me every wk end we are both widowed he has 6 children i have 5 all grown up it takes him just over an hr to get here then an hr to take me back to his house , he has a son in his 40s living with him ...

Feel confused. Do I go with my gut feelings or forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4203 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - Hi i've know this guy for some years now. About last year we have been together almost everyday. Throughtout this whole year i have seen this guy open up and want to be around me, and then act like he just wants to be my friend. Everytime it s...

Do I bow out for the sake of my boyfriend's children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - I need help as I am having a serious dilemma! I am with a wonderful guy...been together 2 years and are happy together. He has 2 kids, we want them together as I don't have any. When we met, we decided to save for a house, marriage etc. I ...

Controlling Brother Over mutual friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) - A few months ago my brother introduced me into his group of college friends, I was friendly and just acted mutual with them all. A few days after this my brother and two of those friends invited me to play a PC game with them and talk over skype as ...

My boyfriend's weird relationship with his 2 grown daughters disturbs me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has a weird relationship with his grown daughters. They are 20 and 25. He allows the younger one to drink in our home when she is driving. He roughhouses with the older one and sometimes will intertwine his limbs with hers when they are ...

I'm 13 and I love my 16 year old cousin -- is that wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

17 June 2013 (M) - I love my 16 year old cousin is that wrong Why I love her I love her in so much and I want her bad, when our family has gatherings me and her always are together and make each other laugh, in my point of view she is smart and funny and very ...

Do I really need all this Baby Mama drama? What can I do about this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for six months. I'm in a baby mama drama situation, and I'm not sure how to handle it... Please help. I'll give some background... He and the mother of his child were never married. Their relationship was r...

I can't take the way my mother treats me, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (F) - sorry this is a bit long... I can't believe at my age I still get hurt from the way my own mother treats me. I am not holding any grudges towards her and I am not talking about the past, no, I am talking about the present. It surprises me that...

My Dad refuses to be around my boyfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

16 June 2013 (F) - I'm going to my cousin's 30th birthday party next week, but I can't take my boyfriend with me, as my dad is going to the party too, and he doesn't want to be around my boyfriend. My boyfriend used some bad language when he came to my dad's birthday ...

Can cousins be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 June 2013 (F) - this isnt really a problem.. but you know. i just wanted to ask if.. erm. is it okay for cousins to like each other? i mean not only liking as a cousin but actually something deeper than that. ive been thinking about this situation for nights since ...

I am almost completely flat-chested, my self-esteem is in the toilet and it's affecting my relationships.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - Well, the title says it. I am basically the equivalent of a 32AA bra size, and even then my bras tend to slide around because nothing fills them up. I've always been a slim build and then recently put on some weight and I now weigh a comfortable 125 ...

I am overworked both at work and at home but my traditionalist mom doesn't understand.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - Hi Having a few problems here. The last couple of weeks I've been suffering from bad migraines and dizziness. Then last Wednesday I had a full scale panic attack before going to bed. Now this has only started happening recently the only other ...

We are so great together, except that his son doesn't accept the relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - I am a 36 years old female and seeing a man 58. We started this semi-affair 5 years ago. He ended things abruptly about 2 years in saying one of his five sons felt really uncomfortable with it. (the middle of the 5 and only one who doesnt live on ...

My cousin is a now a different person because of this girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - Hey, basically my cousin whos like a brother to me and I have always been rather close. However since hes got with his recent gf hes strayed away from everyone, ALOT. Also away from his religion. Hes had gfs before and has refrained from sex unless ...

I promised my sister I would take care of her family, but this isn't what I bargained for

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - Few years ago my sick sister made me promise that i would take care of her family if anything happened to her,at the time i didnt really think she would die so young,so the family arranged for me to marry her widower and raise her 4 kids,it was ...

Do parents who coddle their kids actually love them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - I was dating this guy and everything was going good and it seemed we were becoming serious until I started finding out more about him and his family dynamics. A few months in I found out he lived with his mother (he was 36 at the time). I was ...

My brother's girlfriend is out to get me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, iv got a huge problem with my brothers new girlfriend and i dont no what to do. the bottom line is that she hates me all because of a misunderstanding that she wont forgive me f or. My brother is 21 and she is 39, and has 3 kids, one who ...

Do I end my long term relationship overseas due to homesickness??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - I moved from the US to Australia to be with my boyfriend over 2 years ago (he's an Australian citizen). I am currently debating ending my 7 year relationship with him, whom I love very much, because he doesn't want to move back to the states with me ...

My menopausal mother is taking the joy out of my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - This is a relationship question focusing on my mum. I am nearly 20 years old, I am in a three year relationship and recently engaged, I am looking for a house with my boyfriend although we have no firm plans to move out yet, she is going through...

My address and personal info is listed online. What should I do? Does it matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2350 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - How do I remove online information about myself? I admit that I'm quite the curious person, and have searched many acquaintances by their name and city. All that have come up are social networking websites and old blogs which are harmless. I was ...

Any advice on how I can find my real father pls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - I am 27 and I would like to find my real father. My mother or anyone on her family won't tell me anything about him, other than a first name and the location I was conceived. I know when I was about 4 or 5 I attended a wedding as a flower girl...