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Archived questions from: October, 2020 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I'm tired of playing games. Should I end it with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1517 days ago

31 October 2020 (M) - I asked my girlfriend to meet up for halloweeen and she said we can’t this year because of COVID-19. It’s Halloween, I am working and she has just told me that she won’t be around evening as she is going out. I’m stuck with work (as she told me ...

Is it a good idea to pay an escort to date me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1517 days ago

29 October 2020 (M) - Hello I am a male virgin who has never been on a date or kissed a girl. I have many friends who are women but never had a girlfriend. I'm not particularly handsome and I am chubby. I'm bald also. I basically look like a gorilla. I am socially aw...

Always the rebound girl, never the girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1518 days ago

29 October 2020 (F) - Why am I always the rebound girl and never the girlfriend?! I don't know what it is about me but I always seem to attract or I'm attracted to emotionally unavailable guys and it makes me want to hit my head against the wall. I've never been in a ...

The stars do align between me and my boyfriend, but there are some concerns with him as my future husband. Your advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1519 days ago

28 October 2020 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm writing you to get your advice on my relationship with a man I've been involved with since March of this year. We have been exclusively dating since June and have built a healthy relationship so far. This was a relationship tha...

What does "I don't see you that way" mean and how to change it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1525 days ago

22 October 2020 (M) - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl or been on a date. Whenever I work up the courage to ask a girl out, I always get told "You're a sweet guy but I just don't see you that way." What does that mean? I always interpret it that I am too ug...

Is this just a friendship? I don't feel sparks

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1527 days ago

21 October 2020 (M) - So I've (34M) recently started dating with really cool person (37F) and got to the boy/girlfriend point. She is great - everything I think I could want in a girlfriend. We get on well, have a similar intelligence, personality, find her attractive, ...

Is he making me out to be an idiot? I'm not sure he's over his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1527 days ago

20 October 2020 (F) - I would like some advice please. I have been dating a guy since June. At first I found out he hadn’t been in a relationship for 6 years since his ex (first relationship) she cheated on him with his best friend... I then find out he is still in ...

He says he just wants to leave things as they are. Does that mean he's not interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1528 days ago

20 October 2020 (F) - Guy I’ve been seeing has just broke it off saying he’s just not ready for a relationship at the moment and wants to leave things as they are for now. Does this mean he’s not interested at all? He’s had a lot on with work and his mum being ill but ...

Girlfriend upset because I like instagram photos of fitness women

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1527 days ago

20 October 2020 (M) - Hi, This may seem small but hear me out. Been with my gf for 6 months now. The other day she asks me why I like all these Instagram posts of fitness girls/insta models etc etc. She says I like alot of them and it upsets her. We follo...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I still like girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1530 days ago

19 October 2020 (F) - I am a christian and I'm in a long term relationship and feel really disconnected sexually since I have a secret and it's gotten to the point where every time we sleep together, I need to fantasize about the opposite sex or I can't even get aroused ...

My boyfriend gets tired when he gives me oral. How can I encourage him to keep going?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1525 days ago

16 October 2020 (F) - So what am I to do when my boyfriend says his tongue is tired when he performs oral sex on me? It takes me awhile with him. I am not sure why. I can take care of myself much quicker. But with him it takes longer. That is normal, right? I use...

My long term boyfriend ghosted me, had a fling and now has come back telling me he loves me. Should I believe him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1533 days ago

16 October 2020 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. Long story short. My boyfriend of 5 yrs left me back in July. We were having some problems at the time except we always used to work them out. But that day, he just gave up on me and ghosted me. I couldn't even get him to talk ...

He has ptsd how can we make things work

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1530 days ago

15 October 2020 (F) - Hi. Me and a friend decided to have a relationship 3 years ago. its been a bit rocky from after 2 month of dating things were always on and off with him and after a couple of years he started opening up about his past things I didn't know of and ...

Dealing with my friend’s relationship drama is becoming draining

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1532 days ago

15 October 2020 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I’m having an issue with one of my friends which is causing me quite a bit of stress that I’d like your advice on. I love her to bits but she’s always acted like a doormat. It’s almost like she takes pride in being that way, ...

New GF enjoys strip clubs and looking at other men whilst in a relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1517 days ago

15 October 2020 (M) - My new gf of 6 months told me that her and her friends have been to a few male strip clubs and that she enjoys them and would continue to do so. She also said that she enjoys looking at other men and does it even more so when she's in a relation...

I need to know if people are capable of change when it comes to cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1534 days ago

14 October 2020 (F) - I need to know if people are capable of change when it comes to cheating? I broke up with my partner of 10 years and father to my child 18 months ago. We had a good relationship. There were a couple of niggles - he was slightly stricter bringi...

I feel numb and can't get into relationships until they have ended. Am I depressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1534 days ago

14 October 2020 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles I’m in a rut in my life and need some help. Bit of a backstory I grew up as a child and in my teens around abusive relationships. My mom and dad divorced when I was young and my dad use to beat my mom. My mom then...

I don't want to be in a relationship where I would be the one serving and then die not knowing what it's like to be cared for... should I just break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1530 days ago

13 October 2020 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I are both in our twenties and have been together for a while now. We both had a discussion last night about how our future. I live with a medical condition and so I want to live a good life because I don't know when I woul...

Advice needed on how not to overthink and possibly ruin the start of a relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1537 days ago

12 October 2020 (M) - Hi everyone I apologise in advance if this gets too long. I will try to keep it brief. As a bit of context, I don't seem to have much luck with dating. It's not so much that I never meet anyone, it's just that I often seem to be the plan B. I...

Should I buy a condo with my partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1537 days ago

10 October 2020 (F) - Hello, I have a question about cohabiting. If I purchase a condo under my name and decide that my boyfriend would live with me later on, would it be wiser to just have him sign with me as opposed to just myself? I am planning to propose to him next ...

I think my girlfriend has an eating disorder, but she won't talk about it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1537 days ago

8 October 2020 (M) - I think my girlfriend has an eating disorder, but she won't talk about it. We are currently living separately, although we lived together for three years while in college. For the past year, she's been with her family while I am studying for a ...

My girlfriend thinks its ok to see male friends/exs one on one. I'm not comfortable with this

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1542 days ago

6 October 2020 (M) - Hi, I been with my girlfriend for six months, everything is going so well, I'm involved with her family, we never fight and we are in committed relationship, I love her. Some problems have recently surfaced, she feels it is ok to hang out with ...

Am I overthinking what he said?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1542 days ago

5 October 2020 (F) - During the middle of August I started talking to this guy who was also single, we have now met up around 10 times we do the most random thing like driving around and even once watching the stars, we get on so well and he's been round my house 3 ...

My boyfriend is ill with the virus and I haven't heard from him. Should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1540 days ago

5 October 2020 (F) - My boyfriend has covid and is quarantined alone, at first he was asymptomatic but symptoms started to come and hes been feeling really bad. I know hes been sleeping most the day but wevejust been FaceTiming at night. Tuesday we got in a small ...

I don’t think my boyfriend needs me and I feel lonely in my relationship. Is he with me for the sake of it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1544 days ago

4 October 2020 (F) - I keep pushing my boyfriend away and it’s because I know he doesn’t need me. Is he just with me for the sake of it? We’ve been going out for about 15 months now..he’s 6 years older than me and the first year or so was amazing...we wer...

I'm a hopeless romantic male virgin and I don't know what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1546 days ago

2 October 2020 (M) - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl, never been on a date and of course never been in a relationship. I usually end up making a connection with someone and I can't make that leap and she ends up dating someone else and gets into a ...

I thought my fake boobs would be perfect but men are completely turned off by them!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1544 days ago

2 October 2020 (F) - When i was in my 20s i worked in a couple strip clubs where there was quite a bit of chicks with boob jobs. It was something i always thought looked really good and being a small b i was a good candidate for the surgery though my natural small boobs ...

I am clueless about how to proceed with this lady and I don't want this to be yet another catastrophe

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1543 days ago

2 October 2020 (M) - Hello Cupids and Aunts. I am in need of advice for what I am more and more convinced is a mess I got myself into. A while back while at a funeral I saw a woman who really really caught my eye, both for her beauty and her way of bearing herself....

How can I approach her about sex without putting her under pressure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1538 days ago

2 October 2020 (M) - Hello I've been dating a girl casually for nearly a year now. During that time we have been on about 10-12 dates. Obviously Covid meant we weren't able to see each other for a few months and before that I lived in a different city which is wh...

Fed up of always being single

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1546 days ago

1 October 2020 (F) - I'm 25 and I've never had a relationship that lasted more than 4 or 5 months. When I first moved to London I really loved being single and enjoyed dating but slowly over the years, its's lost its appeal. I would really like something more serious ...

My girlfriend isn't comfortable with me hanging out with another girl who is a friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1547 days ago

1 October 2020 (M) - Hi All Been dating a girl for four months and everything is going well. We are going really well, we have committed to a relationship and have long term plans for the future. I have met all her family and vice versa, We have recently come to...