New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in November, 2020, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (1), 2 (1), 3 (1), 4 (1), 5 (1), 7 (2), 8 (1), 9 (2), 10 (1), 11 (1),
12 (1), 13 (2), 15 (1), 16 (1), 18 (1), 19 (3), 21 (2), 22 (1), 23 (2), 24 (1),
25 (1), 27 (1),

Archived questions from: November, 2020 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is it pointless for me to search for a partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 731 days ago

27 November 2020 (F) - Long story short, I've lived in a toxic home my whole life for almost 3 decades, and after finally breaking away, I feel better than before. In a nutshell, living alone is the most amazing thing ever. I don't yearn for there to be anyone there by ...

I'm not sure how to handle my insecurity and paranoia about my boyfriend's social media account

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1460 days ago

25 November 2020 (F) - Here goes my insecure, slightly paranoid post. My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years, we live together, have a puppy together and want to spend our lives together. However I keep getting caught up in things, mainly social media thi...

He dumped me for no reason and now won't talk to me. Help me fix it.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1464 days ago

24 November 2020 (F) - We dated for 3 weeks. Everything was amazing. We spent a lot of time together and talked for 7 to 8 hours a day about everything. When we were together it was like we has known each other our entire lives. He told his family, friends and son about ...

How do I help my boyfriend improve his feelings of self-worth and convince him I'm not going to leave him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1462 days ago

23 November 2020 (F) - I(24F) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (23M) for three years and I absolutely love him to bits. We met whilst I was at university working in retail. I have now moved onto train to become an accountant whilst he still works there. ...

Am I able to be in a relationship right now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1462 days ago

23 November 2020 (F) - Hello. I have been in a relationship with a man for two months. He is a really lovely person. However, I am struggling in the relationship. I have complex post traumatic stress disorder due to things which happened during my childhood and teenage ...

Boyfriend furious with me that I don't trust him that nothing is going on with him and a lady who wants him to do work for her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1463 days ago

22 November 2020 (F) - Boyfriend of 10 yrs standing is extremely furious with me because a woman nearby he does work for is always ringing and texting with all sorts of jobs for him. He absolutely assures me nothing is going on and the extra money is welcome. The last ...

My best friend isn't happy that I got back with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1426 days ago

21 November 2020 (F) - Hi aunt and uncles! My best friend who is like family has had me as part of her circle during the pandemic. I’ve been pretty depressed and talking about wanting to get back together with my ex with my best friend a lot. I’m not unsafe with the pand...

My boyfriend of 4 years will not marry again so I broke up with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1466 days ago

21 November 2020 (F) - Hi, I could do with some advice as I really have no idea on the best way forward. I was with my boyfriend for nearly four years, like a lot of couples we have had our ups and downs but I did always think we was on the same page in that we loved each ...

Mortified after period sex 'accident'

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1467 days ago

19 November 2020 (F) - I had sex on my period the other day and leaked all over my boyfriend's lower regions and our bed. He insisted he wasn't bothered at all and told me not to worry about it but I can't help it. I can't even look him in the eyes without feeling ...

My girlfriend wants me to undress her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1466 days ago

19 November 2020 (M) - My girlfriend really wants me to undress her, i thought for a moment and then agreed to doing it next time we're at her house. We're going to take turns undressing each other but how fast should I undress her, what do I take off first, and what ...

Boyfriend wants to kiss but I don't know how

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

19 November 2020 (F) - Me and my bf had our first kiss last night at his house and it was amazing. He wants me to come to come back tomorrow night and I think we might make out. But I don't know how? Help!!...

He’s done nothing wrong but I’m just not that into it. How can I break up in a good way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1468 days ago

18 November 2020 (F) - So I need some outsiders help. I’ve been seeing this guy for a while, we met online and couldn’t meet because of lockdown. We finally meet and things have been okay for the 3 months we’ve been physically seeing each other. But that’s just it, they...

Hurt by my fwb fella sexting during lockdown

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1426 days ago

16 November 2020 (F) - Hi, So around 3 years ago I entered a friends with benefits relationship with a guy I know (let's call him Jack). We ended up becoming best friends who also had sex. Over the last 18 months, we've become very close. As both of us are still studying ...

Online dating and covid query

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1439 days ago

15 November 2020 (M) - Hi sorry for the long post, so to start of me (m25) and my girlfriend(f22) started seeing each other ONLINE since late April, we've both live in different countries and planned to meet each other in December, but due to travel restrictions and ...

How can I get over missing out on teenage love? I'm 27 now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1468 days ago

13 November 2020 (F) - I'm a 27 year old woman and it never really bothered me up until now to think that I never experienced teenage love. I have dated men in my college years, but seem to think what it would have been like to have that naive tender teen love. I wa...

My boyfriend ignored me when I was having a panic attack

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1471 days ago

13 November 2020 (F) - I just had an anxiety attack. I was trying to reach my boyfriend. He knew I was having this panic attack and ignored me. He read all my messages and was online and ignored me as I frantically typed message after message trying to reach him. I told ...

How can I help her to see why I feel used and annoyed without her getting angry at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1476 days ago

12 November 2020 (M) - Hi everyone, Just wanting a little perspective on a situation. My partner and I have been together for several years. She has gone back to school for the last three years and I have worked full time to support us. She is just finishing up wit...

How often I should give in to his desires to send him a sultry picture and yet still keep him attentive and not thinking about only sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1470 days ago

11 November 2020 (F) - Hello, I have a simple question but one that keeps me up at night nonetheless. I'm seeing this guy. Super great, love him to death honestly. However, recently I sent him a slightly... unusual picture. Well, compared to what we usually send. It...

I'm against the idea of my girlfriend wanting to have a three day disco party in our house!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1476 days ago

10 November 2020 (F) - I've been dating my girlfriend for 5 years and recently she's told me she wants to have a three-day disco party in our house with music non-stop and all money donated to COVID-19 causes. She claims "it's all for a good cause". In fact, her ki...

We're dating he says he loves me but he's still hung up on his ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1478 days ago

9 November 2020 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 6 months and I feel like I love him. About a month ago, he told me that he still loves his ex girlfriend (lasted 3 years and ended when she meet someone else while working abroad). I have split up with him a couple of ...

He came out to me as a trans woman and I'm straight

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1479 days ago

9 November 2020 (F) - So I (a girl) have been dating a guy, J, for quite a few months now, and last month J came out to me as a trans woman. Since then, J has been acting more and more feminine. I am straight and have never felt attraction towards women, and the more ...

I really care for my boyfriend but his lack of communication is making me wonder if I want to be with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1478 days ago

8 November 2020 (F) - Hi lovely Cupids, I hope you're all doing well right now. I have a relationship question I need a bit of help with. Me and my boyfriend have been together just over 2 years now. We met through my bestfriend as we needed a room filling in our ho...

How do I get the full story out of my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1476 days ago

7 November 2020 (F) - I looked at my boyfriend's phone when he got a notification. He was asleep after a night out, and left his phone on the sofa. Curiosity got to me so I read the message. There were 2 from girls. One of them said "Morning xx", the 2nd said "okay Da...

My boyfriend's grandmother wants me to breakup with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1479 days ago

7 November 2020 (F) - Hello, I am in my mid twenties and have dated my boyfriend since high school. My question is regarding his grandmother. Now, I know I shouldn't take her criticism too seriously but it has recently bothered me. Last week my boyfriend visite...

I have a small penis and premature ejaculation... Casual hookups?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1426 days ago

5 November 2020 (M) - How can I start casually dating and hooking up? I have only had 1 sexual partner in the past and it has been a year since we broken up. I am moving on with my life, but I find it hard to get back into the dating life as I have what is a major deal ...

I do great till the girl sees my photo and then I'm always ghosted. It has to be my looks

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1478 days ago

4 November 2020 (M) - Has anyone got any stories to share to make me feel better. I know there is no solution but here goes. When I was in school I was always picked on for my looks. It formed a personality where I am embarrassed when others would say it in front of m...

My girlfriend is setting up all night outers with her friends. I am not happy about this

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1469 days ago

3 November 2020 (M) - Hi need help, Been with my girlfriend for five months, everything is going well and we are very happy together. Some problem has surfaced, my girlfriend is 24 and I'm 28. She is starting to organize nights out with her girlfriends implying sh...

I've no clue how to approach gay dating or meeting single men

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1485 days ago

2 November 2020 (M) - I'm 34, and while it's taken me some time to accept I'm attracted to men as well as women, I've no clue how to approach gay dating or meeting single men. I don't have anyone to introduce me, and know nothing about this area. I'm attracted t...

Its been 5 months but I'm not ready to give up sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1486 days ago

1 November 2020 (F) - My bf and I have been together for nearly 4 years. I love him and he’s a great partner, we work well together and there’s never been any major riffs in our relationship. When the pandemic started he started working more and now it’s been 5’ months ...