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anonymous
writes: Hi guys , so my boyfriend and I have a really good relationship. But the thing is lately we've been busy and weve had alot of our own problems to deal with. We decided to take a break cause it didn't seem the right time to be in a relationship, I guess.The problem is the break is hard. It's hard to see him so little and iknow a couple of girls that are after that were waiting for us to break up. I'm trying to be paitent but I'm scared that if this lasts to long we won't even get back together. Iknow we still love eachother he still tries to talk to me I guess to keep a relationship going but it's just not the same and it still worries me. I don't how to deal with this break or what to say or do. Any advice?!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 October 2012):
 either you are a couple or you are not.
you will have to learn that life gets busy. relationships cannot be put on hold because life is busy.. they take a back seat to things (like children, weddings, house renovations, job hunting and in your case school work and jobs I'm sure)
You say "we decided to take a break" but then you say "I'm trying to be patient" so I guess that the person who WANTED the break was him and you just agreed???
At your age, (at any age to be honest but more so as a teen) a 'break' is really just a BREAK UP that's going slowly..
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