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writes: After you've known your crush for a month and after you've been talking to him and trying to get know himAnd yet he still doesn't really show any interestWould it be best to just leave him aloneOr just tell him how you feel so that he'll know?Because you see....I'm not really good at flirting or showing signs that I like someone very well I mean I can talk and make funny jokes and hug (which is what friends do) but other than that I get too nervous to do stuff like "Oh you have really sexy eyes" or twirl my hair around or any other type of flirting....And I usually get tongue tied when I see him like I can only hide behind silly jokes and ask things like oh hey youHow have you beenHow was your dayHow was school(really lame conversation starters) Plus my crush is introverted so you know I'm really not getting anywhere...... He doesn't notice unless I walk up and say hiAnd it kinda sucks because usually when I'm with friends I'm much more interesting and fun but all of that goes down the drain when Im with my crush....Should I just tell him how I feel? And any suggestions?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 October 2011):
 I agree with caringguy, teenage guys can be so blind when it comes to girls, someone could be giving them really strong signals that they are interested and they just don't pick them up so it is best in these situations to just be straight and honest. At the end of the day if he is not interested well at least then you know that you tried and you can move on. But who knows he might be interested and it may be the start of something wonderful, you will never know until you tell him, so go for it! You have nothing to lose.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 October 2011):
Teenage boys are some of the most closed minds you'll ever meet when it comes to working out how girls feel. I remember when I was a teenage boy and I'll tell you that I never once knew what the hell was going on with girls. And my friends and many others were the same.
If you really like him, tell him and see what he says. Then you'll know for sure and it won't be a problem. I say go for broke! Good luck.
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