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writes:HiSo im here to talk about my issue and i do know its not a huge problem but it does mean lots to me.So i'v seen this girl many times and iv always liked cute girls so anyway this girl lives in my neighborhood and when i mean with seen the girl then i mean never spoke to her since its my best friends cousin and here in Sweden, my neighborhood its kind of a big deal so this is what happened. I got on the bus then just sat down, didn't notice her but she was sitting in front of me (there was alot of distance), she was really cute anyway something weird happened i had this feeling when someone is looking at you so i looked at her then i noticed that she was looking at me and often i just look the other way, but this time it was weird i keep't looking at her and we got eye contact for like three seconds then i just looked away really fast and then looked back at her again, then i noticed she just did the same thing, then i got stuck i couldnt look at the other way it was sooo hard so we just starred to each other for a couple of seconds, then i "forced" myself to click the stop button and get off the buss as fast as possible, then all the way back home i was thinking about her, and then i thought like was she thinking about me?And then i was really excited about the other day i thought i was going to meet her but no...The first thing is I've already felt love and it broke my heart and almost killed me, im not even sure if this girl have ANY feelings for me, anyway what i did is that i thought about my friend and about this girl, i said to my self if anything happeneds then she could explain everything to him so he could take it normally..What iv done so far is that iv only liked a comment that appeared from nowhere on facebook and i really hope to get a signal or something like that back from her.If she didnt notice it what should i do?Im not going to embarrass myself because this could get leaked out to her cousin and my friendship to him would be over and i dont want that, what should i do, i want to do something i cant even find the words for what i have to tell you or her.Anyway i hope there is someone out there that is understanding my text and is going to help me out.PS sorry for the bad language... and i was kind of stressed when i writed this didnt know how to explain it..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 October 2011):
 I think you should talk to your best friend and tell him how you feel. Just be honest with him it is always the best way and ask him his opinion. He might not be as annoyed as you think and might even give you his blessing. I can see your friend means a lot to you so talk to him and see how he reacts. Honesty is always the best policy in my eyes and it will get you further in life. There is no point trying to hide this from him.
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