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writes:what do you do when he claims he doesn't like you anymore, but deep down you know he does...how do you win his heart back, or atleast get him to admit that he still has feelings for you, i've seen it in movies but movies lie :( Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 October 2011):
 movies lie.
FWB do not become married partners
Men cannot walk through fire
Men we love that don't love us do not magically realize they love us
Women who are fat do not look thin to men in love...
MOVIES LIE...
IF he claims he does not like you anymore, you have to accept it and move on... and note that living well without him is the best thing you can do.
It hurts now but the pain will lessen and the memories will be sweet... later on.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (18 October 2011):
 Exactly, movies lie.
Be the star of your own movie : MOVE ON. You are only 16, you are so lucky just for that :think : you have in front of you years and years to meet countless other guys , - the possibilities are innumerable,- train yourself to choose well. Aim for someone who will brim with love for you , who will scream his love for you from the rooftops. Not someone that maybe- perhaps- if you are lucky- and if he's in the right mood- deep down, very very deep , could feel a tiny little bit of affection, and if you beg hin enough, he could " admit " it . You should not want to sweat it that much !
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2011): Only he knows what he wants so deep down what you think you know is just your own feelings wanting that to be true. You can't force someone to be with you. All you can do is let him know it has hurt you but you won't wait forever for him to realise what he has lost! Go out with friends and make yourself happy. Perhaps if he sees you living life without him it will make him see what he has lost. But if not then you are better without him. No one but ourselves holds the key to our happiness and well being, If you can't make yourself happy then no one else can. Best of luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2011): Move on. It sounds harsh, but it will save you a LOT of heartache and confusion. There are plenty of people out there who will love you for who you are and actually be up front and honest about it; those are the kind of people you deserve.
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