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writes:I want to tell a guy i,ve been dating I love him but I know that will finish us dating 4-5 months now and I really love him and I know he doesn't feel the same. How can I approach this with him or should I leave it alone Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 October 2011):
 IF you tell him how you feel it will finish you? Are you sure? What makes you say that?
Because if he's given you the indication that he is just out for a good time, then yes it's over and done but maybe it's better that way since the longer you stay with him hiding your true feelings the more you are likely to get hurt.
Maybe it's time for that "where do we stand" talk.
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reader, tb0721 +, writes (19 October 2011):
 Some people develop stronger feelings for the other quicker than others. If you know he doesnt feel the same way and it could end your relationship telling him you love him then I say why rush? You arent going to get the response you would like just yet but may freak him out. If it were me I would wait a little bit until you know either he would be comfortable hearing it or you know he feels the same. Wish you the best
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (19 October 2011):
 If you are madly in love with him and he doesn't feel the same about you well then you are going to end up getting hurt. 4 to 5 months of dating and you both have never talked about taking it a step further and becoming an item? Just be honest with him it is the best policy and at least then you know for sure where you stand with him. Good luck.
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