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writes:Recently, me and my bf started gradually doing more than just a soft kiss here or there. He's a gentle person (to me, at least xD) and he respects my boundaries, but I'm still nervous about these things, and talking about them, or hearing him talk about them, or telling him something feels good is hard for me to do, because I'm embarrassed...It's not like I dont enjoy the things I do with him, because he's patient and... skilled, I guess you could say... but like, just the thought of oral or full blown sex gets me all embarrased... And even the thought of just being touched at all down there kinda gets me nervous, even though I trust him wholeheartedly... Reply to this Question
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (16 October 2011):
 Youre definitely not ready for certain levels of intimacy quite yet. This is normal doll. Build your relationship more with him and you can become closer, that will help you gain trust, respect, and overall have good communication. This way when you feel the time is right, you can talk about him about further steps you wanna take with your sexual relationship.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (16 October 2011):
 You're not ready for sex! There's nothing wrong with that! You don't have to do anything you don't want to do, and if you're not ready, that's okay! You're 16-17. Take all the time you need. He might not be the right person, or you might not just be ready.
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