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male
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36-40,
*ouis13786
writes:HelloThere's this girl that I have been talking to for about 2 months already. She is wonderful and also a sweetheart, so you're wondering what's the problem here. The thing is that I have never been in a serious relationship before. I have only been with my ex girlfriends for about a month or so. Although that was back in my high school days, I know that I have came a long way as far as opening up and allowing myself to be loved and vulnerable. This girl is a few years older than me (5 to be exact) but that's not an issue but knowing that, I know she is very mature and independent. I also am independent and been through things and overcame them and she respects that. However lately, I feel as if things are changing in this time I have gotten to know her. My thing is, since I've never been in a serious relationship, I get very confused at times..... I need to know what exactly am I doing wrong? Am I even doing anything wrong? I want to tell her badly but I also don't want to scare her away. I'm willing to put all my cards on the table, but I don't know if honestly is the best policy when it comes to that. Maybe I'm just overreacting, maybe I'm putting too much thought into it. I honestly don't know which of them it might be. I have cometo really like her and I know she likes me too..... Its just something I'm not used to and I feel a bit lost about it. Any help would really be appriciated......... Thank you
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 October 2011):
 If am honest with you, I feel that you are over thinking the situation which is making you panicky and confused. Just follow your gut instinct. Yes you might be new to all of this and you are unsure but that doesn't mean that you would not make a good boyfriend or that you don't know what to do. You need to be honest with her, so that she knows where she stands. Tell her exactly how you feel and what you want. Just be yourself and treat her well and that is more than enough. Good luck.
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