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*trawberry7
writes:I am dating a guy who is very jealous. We have been dating for 2 months and during this time he kept on telling me that I should delete my ex from my facebook. Because, my ex called me many times when I was next to my boyfriend and told me that he wants me back. I dont want to delete my ex from my facebook, because I dont want to lose him. He is a really good guy and we might be together in the future, he is 26 years old and he wants to marry me, I trust him so much. We broke up because of some family problems but now these problems are gone. Now i am a bit confused but I am also happy with my new boyfriend.How can I convince my boyfriend to keep my ex on my fb , please help
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reader, eek +, writes (14 November 2011):
 if you feel like that about your ex i feel sorry for your boyfriend. He is obviously second best for you. If you love your boyfriend respect him and get rid of your ex. If you cant get rid of your ex leave your boyfriend. I had a gf simula to you and she ended up cheating. The only reason you dont want to delete your ex is you have feelings for him and Thats not fair on your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2011): Hang on you obviously want to be with your ex, and not really with your current boyfriend, so what you should do is break up with your current boyfriend and let him find himself a girl who will treat him right and who deserves his love. Also you need to grow up, and stop using people. It's terrible to treat people in such a manner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2011): wait a minute. You say you don't want to delete your ex because you want to keep him in your life because you are seriously thinking of getting back with him in the future??
You need to tell your current boyfriend of your intentions and where he stands with you, otherwise this simply isn't fair to him because you already are putting a dead end on this new relationship so you owe it to him to tell him that so he can decide if he wants to be in this relationship or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2011): He isnt a real boyfriend by the sound of it. He is just a guy you are using. End it now because its not very nice and things like that have a habit of turning round on you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 November 2011):
 Look it sounds like you are very confused about what you want, your boyfriend is not blind he knows that your ex is a threat to you and his relationship, and he is not wrong. You need to make up your mind. Obviously you still have feelings for your ex and you are even looking in to maybe getting back with him in the future. If that is how you feel well then you need to make up your mind, it is obvious you want your ex back therefore my suggestion is to break it off with your boyfriend before it goes on any longer and you hurt him even deeper. Be true to yourself and how you feel and end your current relationship. It is clear you want to be with your ex so it is time to admit that to yourself and stop using your current partner as a security blanket until your ex comes back.
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reader, im.not.the.only.one +, writes (13 November 2011):
If you cant let go of your ex boyfriend and think there is still a future between yous dont you think you should break it off with your current boyfriend as its not very fair on him!! You shouldnt have to try and 'convince' your boyfriend to keep your ex on your fb, hes obviously uncomfortable with him being there! If you dont want to loose you ex you have to let go of your boyfriend before he gets hurt!
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