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writes: Quick question, I have a date tomorrow with this guy and every time he has seen me i've had my contacts in, I'm wondering should i wear them again tomorrow or not?I'm just thinking if this turns into anything, wouldn't he rather see what i look like with my natural eye colour. Then further into our dates find out that my eyes are actually brown and not hazel? But then i also think he might question it and feel that i'm a fake and loose interest in me...?Any advice would be really helpful! Please please? Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds  +, writes (20 July 2011):
 I'm not certain from your question if the contacts are corrective or purely cosmetic. If they're corrective, that introduces a third option. There's always the chance he finds glasses really sexy. And who could blame him? Find out, maybe you could wear those on future dates.
That said, corrective or cosmetic, I think the issue is going to be of very little importance to him - you could flip a coin for all the difference it would make in his impression of you - as long as you don't get upset if it takes him longer to memorize your actual eye color. If it comes up in conversation, just be honest and treat it like no big deal.
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reader, kattii  +, writes (20 July 2011):
yes defintely he wont think your fake. and if you feel more condifent with them you should wear them as much as you like. also hazel to brown is quite a small change and seeing as hes a boy he probably wont even notice ;)
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (20 July 2011):
 Contacts don't make a person fake. They're for eyesight so anyone who thinks you're fake because of them aren't worth your time. If you can see fine without them, then let him see your natural eyes. I'm sure he won't make a big deal of it.
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