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writes:My boyfriend left his facebook open at my place. So i checked it. I saw that he chatted with ex girlfriends, and also flirted with them. He also said he wasn't secure about his relationship with me..and that there are loads of other cute girls, although i am the cutest.Can someone give me advice if i can tell him i checked his messages( even if he was logged on on my computer)..i want to know what he is up to...What would you do??
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reader, msnewbeginning +, writes (20 July 2011):
 I wouldn't confront him bc you invaded his privacy which meant you didn't trust him. I know it was tempting but when,you go searching you will definitely find something. If you are not happy leave!
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reader, lucky-n-love0927 +, writes (20 July 2011):
 well, i would confront him tell him the truth hey you left your facebook open at my house and something caught my eye so i checked it out... in my opinion he left it open on purpose so you could see what was up with him. if he is not secure with your relationship he needs to tell you why you deserve to know the truth.. and you don't need to be wasting any time with someone who is telling his ex-girlfriends how he feels about you.. he should tell you.. (right?) yes!! again just my opinion... good luck!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (20 July 2011):
 You don't need to tell him you checked his facebook, nor do you need to ask him what he's up to. You know what he's up to, it was written black on white. He isn't sure about you, and there are other cute girls out there and he enjoys to flirt with them.
Acceptable to you? No? Then dump him. If he asks why you can tell him what you read. No need for further discussion.
If you're fine with what you read, and don't care too much about him being indecisive and not loyal, then don't say a word and proceed with the relationship as if nothing ever happened.
You know what he's up to. No need to ask him further. Either this is good enough for you or it isn't. I'd dump him.
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