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writes:So I've been talking to this guy and I think he has been taking advantage of the fact that if he stops talking to me to talk to someone else. That when he's done or finished with the other girl he can come right back and I'll take him back. So what I'm wondering is if I stop making it so easy for him and making myself harder to get will it make him interested and will this let me become the person who's in control of what ever we have? And if so how do I play hard to get with a guy like this ? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 July 2011):
To be honest, if he doesn't have enough respect or inclination to speak to you more often of his own accord in the first place, it's unlikely that you making things more difficult is suddenly going to make him change.
You can't play hard to get with someone who doesn't care in the first place. That's why he talks to someone else - it suits him to not have you bothering him.
I don't really see this going anywhere to be honest, unless you two sit down and actually talk about what each other want and what you both expect.
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