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writes:ive been talking to this guy that i work with for about 2 years. we've always had something going on like kissing all the time flirting and texting.. a week and a half ago, he asked me to be his gf. he always tells me he is in love with me and i thought we were both really happy... this morning, we were texting for 3 hours he was keeping me company as i was commuting to school. he really is the sweetest guy ever.. when i got to school, i went on the computer and on his facebook just to see.. (we're not fb friends though) and my heart sank. i seen that he posted a few pictures on his brothers wall (in another country) basically just pictures of himself... and then there were 2 pictures there.. of him and the other girl that we work with! he is basically hugging her on the skyline looking so in love... and the other is a picture JUST of her. this morning, we made plans to go to the beach next tuesday. i want nothing more to be with him, im so in love with him.. i would marry him... and he spills his feelings out to me like so deep he makes me smile constantly. i just dont know what to do.. i have absolutely no idea how long he's been seeing this girl. i feel like my heart is broken... i know we've been only been official for like 2 weeks but we've been bf/gf but not "official" as i say it like the whole time. what should i do? say to him? i was gonna say something like "dont bug me anymore, i dont want to get in the way of you and your real girlfriend" (if she even is?) I just want him to know I know about them.. should i still go out to the beach with him? we havent spent much time outside of work together... i cant believe this is happening... =/ please just give me advice i appreciate it SO much!
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reader, Larissalover1  +, writes (12 July 2011):
 i think so you go and say 'so whats the story between you and ________?'
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reader, babygirllovej +, writes (12 July 2011):
 Try talking to your co-worker and ask what their relationship is. You should add him on fb. I don't understand why you are not a fb friend.
Good Luck!
If he is cheating on you then leave him. You don't deserve someone who treats you like that.
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (12 July 2011):
How do you know they are just not friends?
Go to the beach with him and then ask if he's ever dated anyone else from work. Tell him you are hesitant to have any work place drama and see what he says. (don't bring up FB photo - just use that info to see if he lies to you )
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