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male
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36-40,
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writes:Hi Dear Cupid, I feel that I am a bit lost at the moment. I met a girl at uni last year and we became really good friends, we would hang out together almost everyday and talk to each other everynight online. I became really attracted to her and wish I had asked her out. Over the summer I havn't been able to see her because we live in different cities; but I can't stop thinking about her. WE still talk to each other online and will be seeing each other again within a weeks time. She told me that she met a guy in a clun one night and he asked her out, so they went on a date and she seemed to like the guy a lot. They havn't been out again, firstly because the guy had to cancel one date and secondly she went on holiday for a week. So when she came back from her holiday I told her that I was going to send her a bunch of flowers to cheer her up, after all she was working 60 hour weeks. But I didn't have her address. Her reply to me was "That would have been so sweet, but what would the guy I dated think about that? lol :P" So we continued chatting online just like we usually do and then she tells me that her ex had just asked her out over msn again - they broke up because he wasn't nice to her. But she really doesn't want to have anything to do with him. 2am and we are about to go to bed and she says good night followed by "uh hum... those flowers love" and then I got a few more kisses than usual from her.So my question is if I should ask her out or not. I know that I want to ask her out but I am not sure if now is the right time. The 1st few weeks back at uni will be quite hectic so I was thinking on waiting for a wee bit first. Also the guy that she dated wont be at the same uni so she wont see him for a long time.Any help is appreciated thanks.
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (14 September 2008):
 I think you should go for it. Imagine, the same thing happens again within the first week at uni - another guy asks her out! Grab it whilst you can! You'll regret waiting otherwise. Just let her know you like her at least!
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