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If my ex is not the real father, is it wrong to have a relationship with him?

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Question - (14 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i was with my ex boyfriend for a year and 7 months. i broke up with him because my mom doesnt approove of his age, since he is 24 and im only 17.

i immediatly got into another relationship, and accidently got pregnent. i am now 4 months pregnent, and still talk to my ex daily since the day we broke up. i broke up with the father of my baby to be with my ex because we are still in love. my ex is willing to have a relationship with my unborn child and me, even though he is not the real father. is that wrong?

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A female reader, HonningKanin Norway +, writes (14 September 2008):

HonningKanin agony auntNope. As long as he knows he is not the father and you were honest with him and he still wants to be there with you there is no problem.

But you guys being in the US shouldn't be having sex as you are still 17. However his actions may show to your mother that he is more interested in you as a person and truely does love you if he is willing to be with you still.

How does our mother feel about the pregnancy?

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