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writes:hello cupid site. i am 19 a male and i have been dating my gf for a good amount of time now. i dont know what to say but i have a really odd question. we broke up before and got back together but for some reason it turned me on so bad to think about her having sex with other guys and i tried my best to encourage it when she broke up with me. when we got back together all i can think about is wanting her to have sex with other guys at her own will if she wants. its real weird its such a turn on for me and idk why. our sex is real good. shes already slept with 2 other guys and i want her to keep having fun.i dont want her to hold back from being out without me to have sex with that cute guy she wants to do. i love hearing about it after and im wondering whats your comments on this ? she dosent want me to have sex with other girls and i dont care i just want HER to have sex with guys she wants to and not put me in the way of that. it turns me on so bad idk why !!! i would just like some good outlooks and comments on this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): i really don't know what to say about that. i had a threesome with my best friend and my girlfriend and it felt sort of weird. he had dominance issues. i would be having sex with her, and he would take my penis out of her vagina and place his in. it just felt weird. but if you and your girlfriend are ok with it, then i guess its fine for you to fantasize about her having sex with other guys. everyone has their fantasys, but YOU have to decide when its just starting to get wrong. and remember, you dont know who she is having sex with, it might be a guy that wants to steal her, or she might decide that another guy gives better sex than you. you have to think about those things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): i really don't know what to say about that. i had a threesome with my best friend and my girlfriend and it felt sort of weird. he had dominance issues. i would be having sex with her, and he would take my penis out of her vagina and place his in. it just felt weird. but if you and your girlfriend are ok with it, then i guess its fine for you to fantasize about her having sex with other guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i also find it weird that i want to do 3 somes with other guys to have sex with her with another guy. or possibly just have sex with my gf and have my friend with his gf have sex in the same place as us after we toke up get wasted and stuff and have a double date w/ sex kinda thing. idk what to think of myself obsessing about that. i find it a extreme turn on to have sex while other people are doing the same in the room and doing a un noticed switch in the heat of the moment cause it would never be agreed before the action happens. tell me what u think of what im adding please !!.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 September 2008):
Wow, you should have a look through this site and read the hundreds of "I can't get over the fact my girlfriend had ex boyfriends!" You are a lucky lucky man to be the opposite of all these insecure guys.
You are a voyeur. You like to watch / hear. Yes, your relationship is unconventional in that it's open for her but not for you. But if you are fine with that and she is fine with that then brilliant! Enjoy it!
As long as you two are happy with each other and this is just something you do together as a bit of extra fun, and you are faithful to each other on an EMOTIONAL level, then it's fine.
It's like your own personal form of swingers parties. You should try those actually.
Oh and [insert safe sex lecture here] condoms, diseases, pregnancy, std check ups, you know the drill. Be careful!
Good Luck!! xx
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