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writes:i went out with this girl who i was madly in love with and she broke up with me and went back to her ex who treated her very poorly. she now left her ex in hopes of going back out with me but i messed it up. one night we were talking on the phone and i made up a story of a girl trying to get in my pants (there was girl who was flirting with me) but i over exaggerated the story to make it seem like i didnt have sex cause i was thinkin about her. she caught me in this lie and is really mad. how can i fix this? please help me im in love with her so deeply!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): Plan and simple ...
Just as bad as each other.
Why did u lie to her? No loyalty i guess Why let her come crawling back? No self respect i guess. You know how many people i say this to? And do they ever learn? Haa good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): Dear Poster
I think you did it to try and make her jealous; probably because you wanted to test her reaction as you were not sure of her feelings for you;
I suggest you discuss the situation with her and explain to her why you did what you did and apologize to her; I do believe that is she is serious to be with you and cares for you she will forgive you and understand.
If she is going to keep this against you; well then I suggest you should think seriously about her commitment to be with you.
Best wishes and keep SMILING.
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (14 September 2008):
 Bubbloo very much stated what I wanted to say. Are you not hurt by the fact your girlfriend thinks she can come running back to you when things with her ex goes pear shaped?
Anyhow, all you can do is aplogise and explain to her the reasons why you said what you said. I'm sure she'll understand.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (14 September 2008):
 Hmm... two things:
- I'd be p*ssed off with her for getting with her ex and thinking that she can come crawling back to me, if I were you.
- You know you were wrong or lying. If I were you, I'd try to talk to her and say that you were wrong to have lied but that you did it because you're crazy about her and you wanted to see her reaction towards it to see if there was still hope that she liked you back.
I'd just tell her the truth basically, but I really wouldn't be happy if my ex bf came runing back to me when things didn't work out with her boyfriend. It would make me feel very used. But it's not me, it's you so it's up to you what you do, but as I said, just explain the situation to her and hope for the best.
Take care xx
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