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I'm 15 and never had a boyfriend. I feel there is nothing appealing about my personality. Could anyone advise me?

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Question - (4 September 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey!

I'm 15 years old and I have never had a proper boyfriend. I'm not bad looking but I don't feel I have much personality. I know guys would rather girls with a big personality and I feel insecure and that I'll never have a boyfriend because there is nothing appealing about my personality.

Could anyone advise me?

Thanks =]

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007):

I'm 16 and I don't have a girlfriend (hint hint) just kidding :P but seriously don't let it bother you. It may sound stupid but you should wait till the right guy shows up. No matter your personality there's always at least one person in the world who thinks your the most beautyful person in the world! Just the fact that you asked this question says that there's more to you than you think ^^.

From: The li'l helper.

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A female reader, JessIzFit United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2007):

JessIzFit agony auntHeya, the same was with me. Just be yourself, and wait till your fully devolped. Manly it is because your too young and boys haven't quite noticed the beauty of your body, everyone is beautiful in their own way and there is someone for every person. Don't worry and enjoy being single,

Mail me if you have any other worries,

Luv you and wish you all the best

Louise

XXXXX

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2007):

kenny agony auntYou are still only very young, you have got all the time in the world to get a boyfriend. Don't be in to much of a rush, relax, enjoy yourself, have fun with your mates and i bet you get a boyfriend when you least expect it.

All the best x

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A male reader, air show United States +, writes (4 September 2007):

air show agony auntyou are only 15! boyfriends will come, its not only you that may be shy but also the boys.

My best advice to you is to just try and be friends with some boys, then it may turn into something. How?...talk to boys on the bus. talk to them on msn etc...

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A female reader, Skeez United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2007):

Skeez agony auntheya hun. I thought the exact same thing as you at your age (im now almost 17) and I dont have much of a confident personality. I have mood swings. I dont liek to go out and hve fun. I hate being around big crowds and etc etc.

I thought I had a rubbish personality and all my other friends were getting boyfriends and admirers and i felt so left out. But you know what...I met someone and ive been with him for over a year now and we started going out on the first day we met.

So your personality may aswell attract other guys and you will have lots of boyfriends while ur in your teens.

dont worry so much.

xx

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2007):

TELLULAH agony auntHi,

First: stop running yourself down, we cant all be CO-CO the clown can we?. Just like we cant be as thin as Kate Moss.

You are only young and your personality will bloom as you get older. You sound a little shy, so you could try joining some clubs or take up a hobbie. This would build up your confidence and get you out meeting new people.

You will get boyfriends dont worry about that, there is someone out there for everyone, you just need to be patient. And confidence is the key.

Good luck sweetie XX

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