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I met a guy on line. He called loads and we met up but now I haven't heard from him. Should I try and call him again?

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Question - (4 September 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I met a guy online - -he kept emailing me, I replied then he asked me to call, I said I prefer to be called he called and texct me, we met then he test me and called me everyday. Then he just stopped I calle dhim and he is yet to respond....I really do not want to call again but shoudl I after a few days? We had a great time when we went out I thought...he called me everyday after for a week straight then disappeared.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007):

Don't call him. Not worth it. If a man is interested he'll call you. Bet you can do better.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007):

Just keep your distance and wait for him to get in touch with you.Is it the end of the world if he doesn't ever get in touch? No, i don't think so, there are plenty more fish in the sea, just be sure you don't hook a shark.

take care

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007):

Maybe is something you said. At the beginning of every relationship there is a big possibility of being misunderstood. I know it because I've been there a lot of times. Is not easy to find people who are mature enough to not jump into clonclusions because you tell them that for example you hate this or that. People expect that you give the best of yourself and project as a perfect person at the beginning of a relationship. If they perceive something you said as offensive (even if it wasn't your intention) they will run away quickly. Even if you did it I wouldn't call or contact him again unless he contacts you first. Who needs an extreme sensitive person around them?

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2007):

AskEve agony auntIt sounds to me as if he's changed his mind about you. Even if he's lost your phone number he still has your email address and if he's still interested he'll get in touch but I certainly wouldn't call or text him back, it will only make you seem desperate. WAIT for him to call you or email you, if he doesn't then forget him.

Eve

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