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*osesAreRed
writes:Well, I need help, yet again lol. Well, my mum's assistant manager likes me, he's 23 and I'm 18 and I'm thinking, is he too old for me? I know he likes me as everytime I see him, he always says hi to me, and he always looks deep in to my eyes, and I've even noticed him checking my body out once or twice, and he has a habit of standing right next to me, I mean like 5 cm away from me. He isn't very nice looking, but has the most lovely personality, but he asked me out for a drink, and I'm not sure whether to go or not. I'm not sure if I like him or not, as I'm stil gettin over someome I thought liked me, but he didn't. If I go with this person, I'd like to go as friends, but I think he'd like more, but I'd like to get to know him more. What should I do? Do you think this guy likes me? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, RosesAreRed +, writes (5 September 2007):
RosesAreRed is verified as being by the original poster of the question I would love to go for a drink wiv this guy, but I'm torn between him and the guy I'm getting over. I'm really startng to like my mums assistant manager, he's such a nice guy, I am almost over the guy I used to like. But I still like the other guy a little bit, what can I do?
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reader, legacy  +, writes (4 September 2007):
roses, in my humble opinion you have answered the question. This guy wants more than a casual drink and if you go out for a drink then you will have him to deal with. And if he works with your mom and things go sour then you will have more problems, your mom will actually. So you see what lays in store? In other words, don't unless you have a change in heart and are attracted to him.
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reader, the irish celt  +, writes (4 September 2007):
hi there first of all i dont think the age difference matters secondly if ur only just getting over someone just beware ur not on the rebound if u really do want to get to know him more go for a drink just as friends and tell him that it is just as friends first till the two of u get to know each other remember looks are not always important and if he has a good personality like u said he does that shouldnt be a problem just get to know each other as friends first and take it from there
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): Make him wait... Establish your feeling for him first and don't go out with him untill you do espically if you think he into you as more than just friends..
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reader, RosesAreRed +, writes (4 September 2007):
RosesAreRed is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI asked him out for that drink again,as I liked someone at the time, and he went got embrassed and walked off but said yes, but he's away for a week. and I don't know whether to mention about it when he comes back, or let him ask me! He never puts himself out to text me, unless he's shy. I usually have to text him, then he reples. Please help me;.what do i do?
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