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writes:My boyfriend dumped me and now we are back together but he never says he loves me and if i say it he tells me i dont mean it and that he doesnt believe me. We have been together for 11 months and i do love him :(.what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): You didn't list why you broke up in the first place. What caused it???? That could be the issue he's having. What caused him to break it off, may be a huge issue that's going on now. If so talk to him about it. If not, ask him WHY he doesn't believe you, then work with him through his reasons. If he has an answer to his questions, the question will no longer exist.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): Do something spectacular! He is afraid that you don't love him because you once broke up and he thinks you hate him for that. I suggest that you do something for him that can convince him that you love him. Let a dream of his come true or give him what he always have wanted! Anything counts :D He loves you! I can tell from just the question ^^From: The li'l helper
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reader, Cupcake  +, writes (4 September 2007):
 I also have been with my boyfriend for just a little over 11months... and he says I love you atleast 20 times a day. I feel that when you love someone you always want to tell them and let them know, it feels good to say and feels good to hear.. So it concerns me that not only does he not say it to you but he also doesnt say it back when you do. If I were you I would start pulling back, dont answer his calls all the time, go out with friends more then him and dont tell him you love him... He will soon see that he does not have you on a string and can keep you tagging along. Show him that hes not the only guy in the world and that your not afraid to move on. If he does have feelings for you that will all scare him and he will smarten up. Guys are usually very easily confused when it comes to relationships, and have a hard time realizing what they have until its gone, or almost gone..
I wish you all the best and goodluck!
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reader, BeckyBadger  +, writes (4 September 2007):
 HiIf I were you then I would try playing him at his own game, it seems to me that he is confused. Try to stop telling him that you love him, and just wait, then after a couple of days or weeks, which ever you can handle (REMEMBER NEVER PUSH YOUR SELF, IF YOUR UNHAPPY, GET OUT OF THERE!!) ask him what you mean to him, if you dont like the answer then tell him to have a think and let you know, and that you WONT wait for him. This should bring out how he really feels about you.Good luck, and dont forget love hurts, so try never to show it if he says he doesnt love you, just walk away, he'll miss you more than you will him.Hope I helped,BeckyBadger x
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