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writes:I kissed someone else as a result a baddd judgment moment and 2 many drinks (wich is no excuse), and it’s eating me alive, a love my boyfriend very much and don’t want to hurt him, but I don’t know if I should tell him, and don´t know what to do, I feel terrible.Michelle
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): They ALWAYS find out.
That, or the guilt will destory you.
You're on here because you know what you should do but you want someone to justify your fear and tell you that you shouldn't tell him.
You'd be furious if he did it and didn't tell you.
Give him the same respect you'd expect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): I agree if it was just a kiss don't say. If it was more than that then I would say tell. But a silly moment is all it was don't cause him the pain. Just don't do it again. Don't worry and secretly make it up to him by treating him well and having fun together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): Simple. Don't tell. Break off all contact with this person whom you kissed and let them know that it was a mistake. Sometimes we do make mistakes and long as you don't find yourself lusting over somebody else a few months later. The betrayal would be difficult to overcome and he will always doubt you at least for a few years. good luck and my solid advice to is if your both religious try praying together. Good luck and god bless.
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reader, Cupcake  +, writes (4 September 2007):
 Well lets see, would your boyfriend tell you? Probably not as he is a guy... Guys usually do stupid stuff then feel bad about it and realize they shouldnt... So they think its ok not to tell you because they dont plan on ever doing it again. You could always just make sure to never do it again and keep this one to yourself since it will probably cause problems with your relationship... But the moral thing to do would be to tell him. But if you really love him and want to be happy I dont know if being moral is the way to go if your SURE you wont do this again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): your going to have to tell him sonner or later cause hes gonna find out about it from the way you act and if you dont tell him hes gonna get even madder that you didint tell him
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