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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I think I'm being screwed over, but she won't tell me.Hi,I've been friends with this girl for a few months now, and it started to become more than a friendship, though nothing has happened yet. She liked me originally, but I couldn't be with her at the time, but can now, and she still wants to be with me.She has been sending me a few suggestive text messages, and asked me when we should meet up etc the other day. She hasn't replied for a few days now, and I know she has credit. I sent her another message this evening, but she has ignored it too. I can;t bring myself to phone her, as I don't want to embarrass both of us, so please don't suggest that.What annoys me more than anything is that I have no idea why she is doing what she is doing (if she is), and I just simply want to know why. If she has a valid reason, then I can accept it and move on, but she just won't tell me.On top of that, she goes back to school tomorrow, and as I live in a different place to her, and had been seeing her over the Summer, it makes it even harder. I really like her, and it's not just a little crush or something, because I know that she has at some time felt the same. I just want to know what's happened.Any help is much appreciated.
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reader, penta  +, writes (11 September 2007):
 I would let her make the next move, but be ready for none to appear. Some girls (especially young, immature ones) "break up" with a guy by becoming completely unavailable (not answering calls/e-mails, etc.) -- some guys do this too. It's not particularly nice, but it happens.
You've already tried to get in touch with her. Let her try to get a hold of you. If she doesn't, write her off and move on with your life.
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