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writes:Ok, where do i start?! Baically i(18) was seeing this guy(25) for about 9 weeks. At first it was soo great! We wernt together but kinda where if u know what i mean...like we didnt say we were bf and gf but we never went off with other people. After knowing eachother only about 4 weeks we went abroad together just me and him for the weekend and got on really well! he said i was different cause i dont moan or 'go off on 1' over silly things and its really relaxed. every weekend he would take me for dinner, cinema and during the week would go to his and watch a film. it was like he couldnt see me enough and really liked me! about 3weeks ago he told me that he did like me and to see how thigs so we coudld make it an offical bf, gf relationship. THEN he moved into his new house near me and EVERYTHING went wrong! he never wanted 2 c me so i asked him why the change and he just siad its cause hes busy with the house and that when hes settled everything will go back to normal. but they didnt! he never called me during the day and i was lucky to get a text from him. so i asked him if there was some1 else but he said no....i still wasnt sure. so 1 day when i went over and stayed (very rare!) i looked through his phone (i know i shouldnt have!) but there was nothing on it at all just texts from me and his male friends so i knew it wasnt any other girl. last sunday he asked me to go over his house at 7 and to let myself in cause he would b half hour cause he was gettin us a take out and a film to watch...so i thought ok so hes making the effort now. BUT an hour went by and no show...i tried ringing but no answer. i stupidly waited an hour and a half but still he hadnt come back and not answerd his fone! i went home forgetting my parents were out and i had no key so i went back to his and went to bed! he came back at 11:30 drunk out of his head and i didnt even get a sorry then i found out he was coked up aswell! i said to him that that was that but he said to 4 give him and all will be good. the next day he went to work at 5 and i stayed in bed...then got a text sayin - sorry emma think its best we leave it...so i just said -ok. then that night before i went to work he came over unexpectadly sayin 2 4get what hed text he didnt mean it. me bein me said ok. after that didnt hear from him for 3days and he was bein a dick head again! so i said u either start treating me with respect and how u used to or we just leave it...and he said to just be friends!! so i said - whatever, take care. that was on friday moring and neither of us have got in contact...i know im not going to cause theres no way hes walking all over me anymore! i just dint understand where it all went wrong?!?!?! im just quite upset about it aswell cause i know how nice he can be its like hes a completely differnt person! does any1 know where all this went wrong?!?! sorry its soo long but needed to get it all out!! xxxxxxx
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reader, MsAgonyAunt +, writes (4 December 2006):
HI
To be honest i think you should get rid of him.
I understand that you like him and it will be hard to walk away but to me it seemd you need to.
Leaving you waiting for an hour and a half is one thing but coming home drunk and on drugs is another.
I think you should to talk to him and ask him if its you he wants or a wacky life style.
You seem like a lovely girl and no one deserves to be treated that way.
Get back out there girl is not just the men that can have fun!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): I think you said it all. He was "coked" up when he came back. That would be enough for me to get the hell out of there. Sorry to be so blunt but you deserve better!! He is on drug that is where is head is. No the wonder you don't know where you are with him, you have got yourself a druggie. Your life will always be up and many downs if you hang around him. Get yourself well out of this situation and get another bloke there are plenty more really lovely guys out there. But please do not go down this road of misery, he will drag you down into the gutter and beyond.
Take care
xx
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