He keeps telling me its over, and then saying he loves me! I'm so confused. Help!

Relationship troubles..........ARGH! My boyfriend of almost 2 yrs just broke up with me yet again. 3 weeks ago we called it quits, we still kind of talked. I was angry and hurt and wanted to get him back. I was asked out by this guy 2wks ago and finally had the guts to call him back last Tuesday and left a message to meet him on Thurs. I swear my ex has ESP because he called me later on that night and told me that he loved me and all that jazz and we agreed to talk to each other but no see one another until the first of the year. On Wednesday I txtd him and said that I enjoyed our convo he responded to my txt saying thathe was drunk and didnt remember anything and he probably said things that he shouldntve. Okay, another heartbreak, back to square one. Then on Thursday I saw him out while i was with my g-friends and when he left I said hi. He came over to me and we started talking about everything. A guy that was flirting with me came up to me and put his arm around me and my ex looked like he was going to puke. We continued talking and when the place was closed I asked him if he wntd to finish the conversation and he did. i went home with my friend and he showed up. We talked about everything and he said that it makes him sick to think of me w/someone else and he wanted to try and make things work. We agreed to talk on the phone but not see each other. We then did the dirty. he told me he loved me in the morning and that he'd call me later. I went out of town with some friends and e called and called again on saturday. I was out with some friends and came home. He called me and I was pretty sloshed and we talked and then there was a knock on my door and it was him. he came in and he said that he couldnt talk to me and not want to see me. it was too hard for him. we tlkd till 6am. he said that he cldnt do it but he said all of these things that gave me hope. i know that we had a lot of stuff happen that he said that he needs time to forget and then maybe we could talk in a month or so. He stayed the night, we did nothing, talked in the morning. He cried and i cried, he says that he loves me and everything but its just not going to work right now. he said that he is an asshole and he wish it didnt have to be this way. he left and we talked on the phone and said that things need to be over and if I want to then i can call him when I get back from x-mas break and see how it goes from there. He did say that it was over and wants me to be happy without him. he wants me to call him if I start talking to someone else. What am I to do? I love him and want him back, I would do anything. Is there still a chance? He said that he doesnt want me to have to wiat for him. How can I not wait? Confused. before we hung up he said that he wished things could would work for us but not right now. is he stringing me along? Do I wait? Help ladies and guys I need some help!!!

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