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writes: i have been with boyfriend for over 5 years and i want to leave him. i still love him dearly, but i deserve to be treated better. i dont know how to let go. we have been through thick and thin together. and he helps me whenever i need it. i dont know how to just say goodbye and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): Sometimes although we have let go, our hearts aren't ready. I say the first step is telling him... and it's hard, I've been there... but it feels good being honest with yourself. Just speak your truth and that's all you can do.
Prepare yourself, and just talk to him. Know that his reaction won't be pleasant, that he will be broken and hurt... but this is what you need for yourself, and no one should hold you back from that... should they?
Good luck to you.
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