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writes: well,,, my dad is a very wealthy man but we'v never had a close relationship ,,, anyway he said he'd buy me a salon as im a hairdrsser for a kik start in life! anyway he doesnt live around here hes always away with his company's so he sent his right hand man 2 deal with it for me he's only 25 and im 19,,, first time i met him i instantly fell in love with him he was gorgeous anyway its been 4 months now iv known him we'v made a really good relationship. finally found a property but now he's cut my dad out and he's getting it me and we are going to be partners which i was ok about because i wont owe my dad anything but it puzzles me why hes doing it , he claims its a buisness ventre for him as he wants to leave my dad, but 2 trust me after 4 months and risk his money? i dont get it, we see each other nearly every day as he says we need to discuss something, half is pointless though! we open the salon at new year, i havent spoke 2 my dad since we found it so im not even sure he know's. i think hes got a idea i fancy him but i m really faling for him and im scared he's never made a move or said he likes me, iv got a boyfriend he no's this and met him and also knows im not happy, anyway hope some1 could give me there view as im very confused thanks xxx
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reader, pica +, writes (5 December 2006):
I'd advise you not to sign anything .. talk to your dad. He's the successful business man in this whole thing. If you have signed anything .. talk to you dad even sooner. Also I can't help but think that you'd benefit from working for someone else for a while - great to have the ambition to run your own salon, but you are relatively inexperienced and it's better to learn while in aposition of less responsibility. Your dad can always be your business partner a few years down the line, when you've decided on your target market and the services you really want to offer. Regarding this new guy .. they do say never mix business with pleasure ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): The best advice in business is to make sure that all parties have clear expectations of their what their obligations and everybody elses obligations are.
If you dont know what this guy is doing, if your father is involved, when to expect capital, from whom, how much, what rates you have to repay at, then this whole venture should be in red status.
There is nothing wrong with you paying for some attorney time to get to get a list of thigs that need to be clearly stipulated. Then have a meeting with this guy, or your father to go through and get clarification on everything.
I dont see how cutting your father out of this deal is going to help your person relationship, BTW.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): I totally agree with rhythmandblues2. I don't like this guy very much. I think there is more to it. I really think you should speak to your dad... I'm sure this guy is taking advantage of the situation here. I'm wondering why you are not comfortable with talking to your dad... I;m sure he cares for you more that this guy ever will. Ring your dad causally and tell him what has been happening... and ask him for advise. I think this guy might be taking advantage of the fact that you are falling for him. Take care hun... I hope this rat doesn't get the best of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): You know, I don't like the sounds of this, this boyfriend of yours is cutting out your father who he is betraying in order to help you out? I think your instincts are waving a big red flag in your face....what is this guy bringing to the table in terms of his own money for investment?
I think you should contact your dad and speak to him about this and all of your concerns, and I would listen to what he says, your dad did not become wealthy by accident, he is a good business man and a good judge of charater.
I smell a rat, sorry.
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reader, tuttankamoonster +, writes (5 December 2006):
To have a successfull business one would need stability,The kind that frees your mind from problems , It would be in both your interest's to sit down and talk about the possabilities of a closer relationship , you need to know direct from Him if he is interested in you in that way .
You both need to realise that priorities have to be set and followed because relationships can fold easily it would be better to give the relationship time to mature , without it affecting your business arrangements for losing a lover is one thing but loosing your busines partner too is a lot to handle I would like to ask you to ask yourself "are you wanting to seriously open a salon or would you rather look for love first and business after It is a hard decision for the girl who is longing for a loving relationship , but not to hard for a Woman needing to have power and success behind her. They know then how to maintain a relationship because organised succesfull Ladies will always know about people , thats how they become succesfull isnt it? I hope this has been usefull and I wish you all the best
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