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Archived questions from: October, 2016 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Why the personal questions about my body? Does he have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - I have this best guy friend, I have feelings for him, everyone swears he has feelings for me. Last night when we were talking (which we do almost every day) he started asking extremely personal questions about my body. I asked him if he had been ...

What's up with this man? Why does he try to look good when I'm around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

29 October 2016 (F) - Hello there! 3 years ago, a male in his early twenties was hired in my school as an teacher. I met him because he became an assistant moderator for the club I went to. During the first year, we treated each other as friends... but in the second year ...

I've fallen in love with this guy, but after our complicated past together I don't know where we stand. How do I handle seeing him again ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

28 October 2016 (F) - Hi guys... I'll start from the beginning. I have met someone at university two yeas ago who I have a very long history with ever since then. We met in our second year after he just enrolled.We officially met at a party I was throwing in my h...

I don't think his behaviour is ok. He told me to 'get over it'. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

26 October 2016 (F) - A few weeks ago after a night out I ended up "making out" with a co worker that I'd liked for ages. He basically said that he'd had feelings for me for a while too and hadn't really felt that way before. We texted for a while afterwards until...

What is this fantasy trying to tell me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

26 October 2016 (F) - I when I was 24yrs old I was in a long term relationship with a man that was very verbally abusice- controlling and manipulatin. The last year of my relationship with him he broke up with me and then essentially came back and begged for me to be ...

Crushing on my best friend for 11 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - So I've had a strong connection with a friend ever since we met in the first year of high school,(11 years old) let's call him Matt. Unfortunately my older brother died shortly after starting high school, and when I returned after a 3 week break I ...

What would be your summation of what makes a guy so sexy? Is that impossible to define? Or could you say it is just a feeling you get inside?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2978 days ago

23 October 2016 (M) - Is there such a thing as a guy who you've just met or seen, who doesn't look like some kind of a model, and who makes you feel, "This guy is SEX! (gaaah, droool)...? What would be your description of what makes him so sexy, or is it impossible to...

Can you help? Seeking tips on how to move on when you finally realize that the love of your life is no longer available to you or no longer loves you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2979 days ago

23 October 2016 (M) - Hello everyone, So I’m the same guy who wrote these two posts. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/mixed-signals-from-my-crush.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-fwb-has-f...

Dating but can't hang out. We text and he gives me butterflies. Why is this happening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - I have been dating this guy who ive know most of my life for about 3 months and were both 15.. The relationship is going good but we never can hang out because im busy and my parents wouldnt allow me. weve met a couple of times while at a mutuals ...

Crushing for my boss. How do I get over this? How do I let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

22 October 2016 (F) - Hi guys! So let me just get straight to it... I can't stop thinking about my boss, despite all my attempts to avoid him. It all started about 6 months ago when I went on a job interview for a few car dealerships. At my last interview for th...

How can I start a conversation with someone who hasn't directly interacted with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - I was at the pub last week and I saw this bar made who was gorgeous but I had no direct contact with her so it didnt seem natural to talk to her. She was collecting plates and empty beer mugs. What would be a good way to talk or strike up a ...

How do I get to know my crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

21 October 2016 (F) - I have a crush on a parking patrol officer who works at a plaza behind my school. He gave me a ticket about a month ago and since then I've been wanting to find a way to talk to him. I went up to his car yesterday to ask him a question about getting ...

Should I follow my therapists advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

18 October 2016 (F) - Most recently I had dated a man for 8 months; we were introduced by friends and hit it off right away. He asked me to be exclusive right away which my therapist back then said it was weird since he didn't know anyone thing about me or had never be...

Did my letter to him mean I've lost him for good?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

17 October 2016 (F) - This guy I been talk to for years I broke of with him he never would ask me out it's been over 3yrs and never ask me he always come up with excuse not go out with me I see him about veryday when he goes by me and I he see me stand their when h...

I saw her first!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2986 days ago

17 October 2016 (M) - I'm so pathetic. Here's why. No better place to begin from, well, the beginning, so I'll start there. I've lived in the same town all my life. For the sake of anonymity, we'll call it Hopetown. (Try and stalk me if you want to, that's not the real...

I haven't attended church because I have a crush on our pastor

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - I'm in trouble. I stopped going to a certain christian church three months ago because the pastor would compliment me all the time. He never stopped mentioning how beautiful I am in front of everyone in church. Always after the service he would give ...

My friend is accusing me of being a shitty friend because I like the guy she was cheating on her boyfriend with!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - This is a very complex situation, so please bare with me as this story might be a little long-winded. In August, my friend Leslie started hanging out with this guy, Ian, she met through Tinder. They were talking to each other off-and-on for n...

I've agreed to be friends, but he is pulling away from me.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

14 October 2016 (F) - So, there is this guy i used to deal with but now we are supposed to be friends. He has been begging me for friendship for the longest once we established that our relationship couldn't go any further due to our military rankings. Initially,, i was ...

My boyfriend cant make up his mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

12 October 2016 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago. A month after we broke up he went out with one of our mutual friends and of course that bothered me but I just kept telling myself if they are happy then I'm happy. A month into that relationship they broke ...

Being strung by my best friend... who has a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2989 days ago

12 October 2016 (F) - Hello DearCupid :) I'm struggling with being strung by my best friend. He has a very attractive girlfriend. They have been together for almost 10 years now and I have always respected him for it. He was never an option for me until we screwe...

Can I ask my fast food fancy out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

11 October 2016 (M) - Is it unorthodox to ask cashier out? I frequent my favorite fast food restaurant once a week which I know isn't a healthy lifestyle. About the past few months or so, a new miss around my age has been working the drive-thru. Granted, it's usually hit ...

I love him but I hate him. Where do I go from here? Its officially over but I still have feelings

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2991 days ago

10 October 2016 (F) - I don't know where to start but Ive lost so much over the past year and the losses still keep coming. I'm 38, two sons (18 and 15) and divorced for a little over a year. My sons are great...my oldest is a freshman in college out of state and my ...

What should I do next? Go back to the shop and hope to interest her again ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2994 days ago

9 October 2016 (M) - So I met this girl who works in a cosmetic shop in my local town and after admiring her and getting served by her and making a bit of idle small talk about bath bombs I found my self going back in an hour later claiming I needed more bath bombs. Sh...

Did I scare him off ? ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

9 October 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts please advise me. I met a guy at a cafe. Everytime I go in he stared at me. I started to fancy him too and we would stare and smile at each other. I broke the ice and we exchanged numbers. I hinted going out on a light date but he b...

If I see him again, should I go up to him and start a conversation ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

8 October 2016 (F) - A couple of weeks ago, I was leaving school to go to work. I had to use the washroom so I pulled into a plaza behind my school. Turns out I parked in a private property parking spot so when I came back to my car, I seen a parking patrol officer ...

How do I allow myself to be vulnerable and work through fear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

8 October 2016 (F) - Hi all, I was on here in the spring talking about how a really abusive relationship left me sour and I was just doing the friends with benefits thing for awhile. Well- I met someone. He is a kinder man than I could ever have dreamed of. We b...

Why did he present as single and not wear any ring? Only telling me later? I broke up, but now he's pursuing me. How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2996 days ago

8 October 2016 (F) - I'm a divorced mom of 2 children. Single for almost 3 years now. I am tall, thin, athletic, and would consider myself a 7.5 – 8, however, six nights a month doesn’t really allow a lot of free time to date. About 7 months ago, I met a very cute ...

Guys, do you agree with my strategy to back off? Do you think I made a fool of myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2994 days ago

8 October 2016 (F) - Hello all I've seen this type question before but I told him I had feelings really put myself out there and he said you're very sweet. Ouch! Now I know the feelings aren't mutual so I've decided to back off and leave him alone. Is that the ri...

LDR and online. But does he love me? He never says so. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2997 days ago

7 October 2016 (F) - A guy who was my classmate said that he likes me . Then we chated almost all over the night for 2 months.He was always online and replied my messages as soon as possible. He shares everything but never tell that he loves me. Nowadays he reply ...

At the cross roads. What should I do? Are we getting in too deep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2993 days ago

6 October 2016 (F) - This past weekend I went to a family gathering with my dad's family most of which I haven't seen in over 10 years. I spent the most time with one of my dad's cousins whom I was very close with when we were growing up and this time got a little c...

Did I mess things up by telling him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2997 days ago

6 October 2016 (F) - I confessed my feelings to him and his response was interesting. At first he was quiet and then he held me and pulled me close to him. He never said anything back. His actions were very loving kisses holding and longing eye contact. He is very shy...

Is it worth calling her up after 3 years? Or should I just let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

2 October 2016 (M) - 3 years ago I met a beautiful and smart girl at comic con and we hit it off right away. She was 19 and even though we lived 80 miles from each other, we made it work and saw each other every weekend. We got into a relationship and everythi...

He was my FWB. Should I just leave him alone, for now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

2 October 2016 (F) - About a year ago I had a one night stand with a guy i met on a night out, we got on really well and started texting and having casual sex regularly. Both of us didnt want a relationship so we decided to be friends with benefits. After a few months ...

Seventeen, and my fear of rejection is so strong that I discourage guys when they make a move. How can I learn to trust myself and stop being this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

1 October 2016 (F) - Hiya I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend but have had "situations" that could have led to a relationship. Problem is I suck at opening up to guys. Well opening up to anybody in fact. Probably because rejection in any form terrifies me so I'd ...

How can I start talking with her, without coming off as desperate or creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

1 October 2016 (M) - There's this girls I like. Or I should say really like. I've asked my friends what I should do, but the advice they give me keeps on contradicting what they're all saying, so instead, I'm asking a bunch of strangers for advice. What I need help with ...

I still have feelings for her. Should I keep in touch? She's about to marry another girl.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

1 October 2016 (F) - So I need a little help. Last year around this time, I started seeing a girl. She was beautiful, smart, educated, sweet. All things I look for in a relationahip. Honestly nothing was really lacking and we were pretty great together. We dated fo...

But what should I do? Crushing for girl in my team. I don't want to be seen as a predator. Don't want to be called up by HR.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

1 October 2016 (M) - Hey. Where to begin. So I take over a team after moving from another department. Then there is this one lady who I start to really spark with. Don't get me wrong - the team I have are a wonderful bunch of people. But this one, she seems to stand ou...