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female
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30-35,
*xfatale
writes:A couple of weeks ago, I was leaving school to go to work. I had to use the washroom so I pulled into a plaza behind my school. Turns out I parked in a private property parking spot so when I came back to my car, I seen a parking patrol officer putting a ticket on my dashboard. We had a small conversation about the ticket but he wasn't being rude about it. I realized how good looking he was and I kind of noticed him checking me out. So yesterday I was outside hanging out at the same plaza behind my school with a friend talking about my psychology exam and I seen the same officer sitting in his car. I looked over at him and noticed that he was staring at me. I want to get to know him but I'm not sure how to approach him. I've had a bad experience in the past with giving a guy my number without him asking for it(turns out he only wanted to sleep with me). If I see him again, should I go up to him and start a conversation? or how would I approach him without looking weird or desperate? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2016): Personally I wouldn't, you never know what type of guy he might be, maybe he would only be interested in just another one night stand, if he is interested he's unlikely to approach you while your friend's there, but how to meet him again without "hanging out" near the parking lot is the problem, Can you afford to park in a private spot deliberately next time and wait till he says, 'you did it again', to which you can reply 'how else was I going to be able to chat to you again?', or can you be walking past the plaza and drop some books that might give him an opportunity to approach you in the guise of a helping hand, that way you'll know if he asks for your number or date he's interested, and hopefully in a long term way.
Best of luck!
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (10 October 2016):
I think it might be weird but what do you have to lose? Ask him if he would like to meet for coffee sometime. If he says no then whatever. If he says yes then you can learn something more about him at least.
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