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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So I met this girl who works in a cosmetic shop in my local town and after admiring her and getting served by her and making a bit of idle small talk about bath bombs I found my self going back in an hour later claiming I needed more bath bombs.Sho when she served me this time I plucked up just enough courage to ask her name and whether she'd want to get a drink after work?She politely explained she'd made arrangments with family, I made a joke about can't blame a guy for trying and she replied with "you never know might see her again sometime" with a very cute smile. Now was that I hope you come in the shop to buy more products? Or was it I hope you come in to talk to me again? Now I know if her through social media after talking to a few friends and don't know how to proceed. Any advice is appreciated! Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 October 2016):
 Call in again and hand her a note with your name and number on it and ask her to call or text if she would like to meet up for a drink or lunch.
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male
reader, 11muds11  +, writes (10 October 2016):
Most of my female friends almost never say yes to a guy the first time. They will be nice and encourage, but they want him to come back, to show they are not just out for a quick relationship.
This might be what happened here. It also gives them time to check that you are not going to be a stalker or anything like that. Go spend so time with her. Try and make her laugh and make her happy. After she's comfortable, try again. Most females like to be pursued as much as guys like to court them. She may just need to be more comfortable with you.
Hope this helps
Good luck
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female
reader, Honeypie  +, writes (10 October 2016):
 Well, I hope your mom is grateful for all the bath bombs!
And why not go in and give her your number, ask her to give you a text if she wants to go out for drinks or coffee.
If she is interested she will probably pluck up the courage to text/call you. If she isn't... she probably won't.
No need to buy more products!
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