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Archived questions from: July, 2015 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I'm 15 and in love with my 30 year old principal

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - I'm 15 and in love with my principal. He's around 30. I know it's not a crush; I joined this school last year and I just liked him last year; I tried to forget him, but my love for him just keeps increasing. All the other girls in my class also ...

Obsessed with a girl in my class. What are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3396 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - Hello, I'm 13 yrs old and I'm obsessed with a girl in my year but I'm too shy to talk to her and since its the holidays i don't have contact with her. I want to follow her on instagram but feel like everyone will find something fishy going on a...

Used a fake name on a dating site. Then chatted there with a great guy. How do I break this news to this great guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - Hi all. In a bit of a small situation that I'm tryin to get out of and I would appreciate a little help. I joined a dating site last week. I started chatting to this guy who is great. Exchanged numbers and been texting back and forth since. Thing is ...

I would have loved to go out with him. But was he genuine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3402 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - Omg there's this guy who I find very attractive. He lives two hours away from me and he's a cop at the weekend. we hit it rite off talking etc he asked would I go home with him and I said I'm not into one night stands. When he heard this he...

We're both bisexual. Do you guys think he may fancy me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3401 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - Okay.. so basically I am really awful at knowing when someone may fancy me and half the time if someone does like me.. I don't realize until they tell me years later, which is normally down to low self esteem, so I thought I would ask you guys for ...

Why should I date someone who'll still be in prison until 2016?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - Hi all. I've been single for the past 2 years because i have lost my boyfriend from suicide. Currently i'm studying on a distance learning program. As we mostly discuss our studies online and leaving our contact details for study group. So there w...

Unrequited love. It's been so long, but I can't get over him. Should I call him to ease the pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3388 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I fell madly in love with this boy back when we were college seniors. We were really close and we spent a lot of time together. One night, I told him how I felt for him. I didn't really get a clear answer from him but I knew that he didn't love me ...

How to make a complicated situation better? Do I have a chance with my baby's dad as in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3402 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - There's a guy I've been into for a really long time. We always would flirt and it seems like there was something there between us. Well we complicated things by hooking up and had a baby. The damaging part is that when I found out I was pregna...

Are guys playing games when they first act interested towards a girl and then choose to ignore her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - Okay so, i really need guys to answer this questiom, or girls due to their experience with dating. So, ive been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now, and I've met him at a party actually, and he said hi to me and tried to talk to me but he looke...

I messed up with my crush, now what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3393 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - I think I messed up with my crush. We've been in the same class for a few months and only recently he's started flirting...at least I think he's flirting...I have zero experience with that..but my bestie assures me he's flirting. Here's what he ...

Is she trying to tell me that she is available? Or did she just want some consolation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

27 July 2015 (M) - Hello dearcupids, 2 years back, i started chatting with a high school crush in facebook. She was 2 years junior to me. I thought she already has a bf, so i didn't flirt with her. I had normal friendly conversation. She replied to my every ...

How long should it take him to call me if he is interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - Hi. Your views would be appreciated. I came across a guy I met a few years ago on Facebook last night ( we met breifly at a band audition but no time to talk or meet properly) on the 'People you might know' bit. It turns out we have a mutual freind. ...

Do I make a move? Or how do I give the signals that I'd like him to make a move? Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - Im 20, in college, and i am 90% sure this guy likes me but i have no idea what to do. Let me preface this: I'm a shy person. Like clinically shy. Especially around guys. I always tend to either shut down or say too much around them. Or I make ...

He's 30. Should I try to enjoy some fun with this guy or back off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - So, I met this guy and feel like there was an attraction between is. Since then, we've been chatting on Facebook and I feel well probably do coffee or something at some point. I know I'm getting a little ahead, but I've been thinking if I sh...

So...she has a boyfriend, will she ever choose me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

25 July 2015 (M) - Hi ladies and gentlemen. I've known this girl for about a year now. I liked her from afar initially, knowing she has a boyfriend. We hit it off real well and everything, and after some time feelings between us develop, so to say. This is all ...

How can I not feel stupid and intimidated anytime I talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3406 days ago

25 July 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, can you give me some advice? thanks :) How can I not feel stupid and intimidated anytime I talk to him? I think my self-esteem is low, I am not confident enough and that's the reason why I feel like it when I talk or text with him. ...

Does anyone believe it is possible to love two people at the same time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - I am not exactly young or naive, but does anyone believe it is possible to love two people at the same time? I don't understand why so many peole think it is impossible to truly love to people when you can love more than one child, more than one ...

Do I leave him....or stay? Or breakup and choose the other boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - My boyfriend started to like someone else and he told me and I've been so hurt and the question is so we stay together? But there's more... We keep almost breaking up then seconds later we tell each other we miss each other. He loves me and he's sto...

Are there no gentlemen left? ? My dating has left me not interested in sex, though I have had sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - I'm 20 and I've got this problem with boyfriends. I only had four of them when I was in HS. "Matthew" was a relative of a friend and he was nice, but he annoyed me because he would just show up at my house without calling first or else he would...

Two dates and already I have never felt so comfortable with a guy. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - I've known this man for two weeks and been on two dates with him. We haven't had sex or anything. But wow, already we hold hands, we kiss each other on the cheek and forehead or very briefly on the neck. On our second date, we got back from da...

I fancy this guy friend but he blows hot and cold

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3411 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - This guy and I met a year and a half ago, became friends and really clicked. He even courted me at first, was very sweet and caring, he'd compliment me, walk me to my bus stop each evening, was flirty and a bit touchy, but he never clearly ...

'm not sure if the girl I like likes me in return, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

20 July 2015 (M) - Hi everyone I have a few questions. Basically i like a girl and i'm not sure if she likes me back, some days i think so, others i'm not sure and i'd love to have the confidence to just ask her but as i'm sure you appreciate, often that is easier s...

How can I rekindle the fire that existed between the two of us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - How do you rekindle the fire? I have been away all summer working in a different state far away from home. I left home on May 24th and will not get back until August 15th. I have been in a long distance relationship since January, but we were only...

I long for this other guy, but he has a Gf now. How do I accept this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3406 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I was seeing this guy whilst I was on a break with my boyfriend, I had a real bad relationship with my boyfriend so things ended! I started seeing this other guy and I have never felt so happy we liked the same things he made me smile and happ...

Now that my former lecturer has sent me a follow request is it ok for me to approach him? I have a crush on him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - I had a crush on a college professor who is quite young. He knows that I have a huge crush on him. So after I graduated from college (maybe around a month) I got a follow request from him on instagram. I accepted his follow request. I posted an upda...

I felt a spark between us. Do I have any chance with her, knowing now that she does have a Bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3412 days ago

19 July 2015 (M) - I met this girl through mutual friends. I was attracted to her straight away and it felt like she was interested in me too, there was definitely a spark between us. However... right from the start she said she had a boyfriend so I kept a fair di...

He fist bumps me at least 7 times during a work day. what is his problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - This guy i work with keeps fist bumping me for no reason. He keeps saying my name whenever I walk by. Keeps saying 'good job', in a funny way, even though he hasnt deen what I did or didnt do. I ask why he just says stuff like that, he awkwardl...

Is it possible to be just Friends to him, after losing my virginity to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - I lost my virginity at the beginning of last year to a co-worker. And moved out of state back to where I'm from. We kept in contact for 5/6months. Then in August we stopped talking, I actually think it is because of me that we stopped talking ...

What should infer from his follow request?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3413 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - Heya! I had a crush on a college professor who is quite young. He knew I had a huge crush on him. So after I graduated from college (maybe around a month) I got a follow request from him on instagram. I accepted his follow request. I posted an upda...

All my friends do sleep randomly with anyone. I don't because it concerns me. Am I too sceptical thinking it's dangerous?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - Is it dangerous to sleep with anyone randomly? Because all my friends do that and nothing happens but I'm very sceptical? I need answers because I'm struggling....

He flirts a lot and he has a Gf. We've been texting. How can I make things less awkward if we do sleep together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - There's a new guy that started at my work he's 32 bearing in mind I'm 20 but I don't think the age matters because we're basically like the same people. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend and he have such good flirty banter and I'm star...

How can I get over being nervous and initiate the first kiss with my Girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

18 July 2015 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for about 2 months, we havent kissed yet and i really want to. I mean i've been kissed by other people before but ive never really had to be the one to start it and the other ones just sort of happened...

Virgin, 19, Anxious, and worried about how, when and where I'm ever going to meet someone and have a relationship. What can I do to resolve this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

17 July 2015 (M) - This is my first time trying something like this but I feel like I need to get it off my chest. Okay, so I'm a 19 year old male who is still a virgin which is one of the things bothering me. I broke up with my ex nearly 2 years ago and since th...

If a woman asks you what is your type is, is she interested in you?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

16 July 2015 (M) - Back at it again! It sucks to be a man and trying to figure out women. With that being said, if a woman asks you what your type is, is she interested in you? After I told her my type she said well i guess i'm your type right? And i asked why ...

Anyone who's ever reconnected with an ex? Is it possible to fall back in love with an old flame?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

16 July 2015 (F) - Is it possible to fall back in love with an old flame? We first started dating years ago. He wanted to concentrate on his career. I wanted more commitment. We split as we wanted different things. I have met up with him once or twice over the...

Long term friend: Do I stop pursuing him, or should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

16 July 2015 (F) - Hello i'm 19 years old. I have a guy friend named “E” who I have been friends and next door neighbors with since I was five up until he had to move out with his parents and siblings across town to live at his grandparents house when he was 10 o...

Breaking up was not my choice. Do I tell my current Bf that I have feelings for my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

16 July 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am so confused and would really appreciate any advice. I am currently in a relationship with a really amazing guy. He's kind and funny and treats me the utmost respect. And my parents like him, which is a great bonus. But there is ...

First crush vs first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - What is the difference between first crush and first love? Gettin so confuse with this. Please give me a clear solution for this . ...

Is it normal that I want to see my girlfriend naked? Should I ask her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

15 July 2015 (M) - I am 16 and curious to see my girlfriends body. I have been dreaming of seeing her in the nude. I really want to know what she looks like naked. She is so beautiful. I want to ask her, but I want to know. is this normal to ask? Would a girlfrien...

This love-rat LDR guy has been chatting to me for a year. I thought it was a relationship. How do I pick myself up after all this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - Please help! A man I had met online found me on Facebook and started chatting to me. More than ONE YEAR later he left Facebook, started a Twitter account and my whole world has fallen apart. I found him sending sexy comments to a particul...

He's acting like a douchebag and I'm so hurt. How do I forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - How do I forget about him, he's horrible to me:(? So there's this my brother's friend who I really liked and we use to talk all the time but all the sudden he stopped ringing me and would always want to argue as if He can't stand me. He says I a...

Is there something wrong with how I feel? I often think about making out with another female.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3415 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - I am a female and often think about making out with another female. I don't know if this is a phase or not, maybe I am confused. I was bullied for a long time and this made me isolated. It started when I felt really close to someone I worked with ...

I know we can NEVER be together.. but how do I emotionally detach myself?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3416 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - How do you detach yourself from someone you know you can NEVER be with? There's this guy I've kind of fallen for and there's no chance of it going anywhere other than friendship so how can I pull away without him really knowing I'm doing so. If he ...

Guy sending me a girl's photo? Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - Hello, so here is a guy that I saw at a party then he added me later on social media and talked to me. At first he kept asking normal question and convo lasted for a 15 minutes maximum. He talked to me again after a week or so and also did the...

This is my first serious relationship. I need advice please on my three big questions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - Hi, So my boyfriend and I are going to different high schools this upcoming school year and he's not really worried. He's confident that we will be just fine together. I on the other hand am less worried than I used to be but I'm still worried...

Do I love him or just really miss him? Where do I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

12 July 2015 (F) - I was very close friends with my co - worker. We got along so well and everyone could see that. We were always messing around and everybody used to make 'lovebird' comments but I never thought anything of it. My thoughts were that we were friends ...

I would love if we went out but I'm so scared to say anything especially now that I havn't seen or spoke to him since I left my job, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3419 days ago

12 July 2015 (F) - I've liked this guy I used to work with for 3 years, we worked in different departments so didn't see each other all the time. I've since left my job a few months ago and still can't get him off my mind. He's always been nice to me etc and we do g...

How should I approach this girl that I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

12 July 2015 (M) - There's a girl that I know of, well, I know her family well- they live in the same village as me, her family knows my family, although I've only spoken to her a couple of times.. Anyway, she's a hairdresser, and cut my hair once about 5 years ago. ...

He doesn't want his friends to find out that he's going out with me. Why? Why does he limit communication?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

12 July 2015 (F) - At the moment I am feeling really upset because I'm going out with this boy and he won't barely talk to me, he has got a lot closer to his friend but I doubt that's the problem. He told me that he broke up with his ex girlfriend because she was ...

How to play hard to get BUT at the same time be nice to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

12 July 2015 (F) - Hi, so there is a guy who obviously likes me. He talks with me for hours, flirts, asks me lots of personal questions etc. He asked for my number in a flirty way. I kind of refused in a cold indirect way. Do you think I should have gave him my...