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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2015): From the way you described her approach, I had a good feeling about it! Keep all those opinions you shared with us, just between us!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (21 July 2015):
 Cheers to you!!! (Did you find out her blood-type?)....
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reader, YourAverageJoeS +, writes (21 July 2015):
YourAverageJoeS is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe first date was a success! She brought up having a second. :) thanks all
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 July 2015):
 Why not set up a short "coffee-date"? So you two can met and chat a while in person?
I don't think many girls would say yes to a date if they weren't interested, they would more likely give an excuse.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (17 July 2015):
 No one I know would say yes to a date with someone they didn't like. Sounds like you're just getting to know her though, so neither of you actually know if you truly like the other yet. You need to spend more time together to find that out. But it sounds like you're both interested enough in each other to want to find out more. Good luck on the date! And set a time for it soon, don't take too long.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (17 July 2015):
 There IS no definition of one's "type" much less a signal of any sort as to if she's "into you". With any luck you'll return to nevr beingable to figure women out. They are so pposite in their logic from men that it is nearly immpossible to ever figure them out.They have us pegged though. They know what we want and will give it up reluctanly 'cause they run the world.
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reader, Euphoria30  +, writes (17 July 2015):
Dear OP,I agree with the other agony aunts that you can only figure out one woman at a time.. because we're all different. The same applies to men and sometimes I also feel like I've got no clue about the other sex.But to answer your question: If I was her, I would use this question to flirt with you and see if I'm your type. I'd probably expect you name also some physical traits.. maybe if I was insecure about my body. After your answer (which was somtething like "why do you think that you're my type?", right), I'd probably feel already a little rejected or discouraged to keep flirting. So if you're interested, just ask her out, even if she's interested, now she won't be courageous enough to give you even more hints. And if she was NOT interested, she'll say no, but trust me, women get rejected too and it's not like you're any less of a man because of that.Good luck :)
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reader, YourAverageJoeS +, writes (17 July 2015):
YourAverageJoeS is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt is someone new that I had met and we exchanged numbers (her idea not mine). We were just having a casual conversation via text when she brought up my type. Btw-she did say yes to a date but we hadnt worked out a day. Im just not sure if shes truly interested or being nice. Thanks all
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reader, chigirl +, writes (17 July 2015):
Women are not a box of same minded people. We do not all think the same. It could be she was just chatting to make conversation. It could be she is interested in you. The only real way to find out if she's interested is to ask her out.
It would be more helpful if you could say who this woman is to you, why you ended up talking about types, and if you're interested in her at all.
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reader, KingZeus  +, writes (17 July 2015):
 I think you should ask her out and see where it leads. I'd say she's into you already!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2015): Usually women refrain from starting what your type conversations if they are totally not interested. But...not always. I see men as friends I initially and I was ( not anymore) leading them on often by asking these kind of questions and giving them these kindof replies.
So ,you can interpret it as both. Al I can tell you that a man who is brave enough to ask for a date wins. The one who is taking his time wondering looses.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (17 July 2015):
Frankly, I'm partial to women who are O-positive.... since I can exchange blood with her (never MIND other "bodily fluids"!!!)....
What say you????
Good luck...
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 July 2015):
 Ask her out! The worst she can do is say 'no' and then you won't have to wonder if she's interested in you and you can move on!
P.S. Most women will mention personality traits, not physical traits. Most but not all.
So ask her out on a date!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2015): I think she is interested. I'd check her out, if I were you!
I like her approach. She opened up a conversation, by exploring who you are through what you like; and what you're looking for. Go for it!!! Try not to show your cynicism and be open-minded!
Good luck!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 July 2015):
Is she interested? It's hard to say, but I would presume yes. And she was trying to ferret out WHAT you are actually looking for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2015): Maybe or maybe not . See your whole premise of 'trying to figure out women' is wrong
Women are people. Each and every one of of is DIFFERENT. There is no secret code for you to uncover or reveal. You need to stop looking at women as 'other' and start taking eAch woman as the unique individual she is.
What was the context? How is she usually towards you? Does she show any other signs of interest. All those are questions to ask yourself . Not some generic questions about what you seem to percieve as strange creatures called 'women'
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2015): I'm not to sure, it could be she interested ..certainly gauging from her reaction she was either teasing about being all the things you mentioned lol or she was giving big hints and flirting a lil haha .. If you like her, just say hmm prove it then, let's spend a day together go to something you both like have lunch, do dinner .. have fun .. In the sense of make each other smile .. and the come back and tell us how it went, please ..
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