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writes:I am a female and often think about making out with another female. I don't know if this is a phase or not, maybe I am confused. I was bullied for a long time and this made me isolated. It started when I felt really close to someone I worked with for a little while and admired her. Is there something wrong with how I feel, and how do I meet someone in a similar situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2015): I wish you’d never been bullied...that's the bit that hurts me because it made you feel isolated; i wonder if anyone was there to pick up the pieces. How you feel sexually is entirely up to you but tread with caution until you really know what you want out of life and value yourself really highly because growing up in the school of hard knocks doesn’t always toughen you up ..sometimes it just makes it easier to feel hurt again , so keep plenty of good people around as a basis of life and if that is not possible develop back up plans and dreams because no one can predict the future. I want to say it will all be perfect but I cannot give you a fairy tale ending when so many people go through so much. All I can say is remember those who love you from your early years if they were good to you and always have the strength to seek help if you need it. This is not about sexuality but about finding a happy pathway for yourself.
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reader, shescute  +, writes (15 July 2015):
 Of course there's nothing wrong with how you feel! You could like girls, or you could just want to experiment. And if you don't romantically like women, you might be attracted to them sexually. The best thing you can do is "feel it out"- literally. Is the woman at work lesbian/bi maybe? Does she seem to be attracted to women, or you specifically? If she does, start getting closer to her and open up about how you're feeling. And if she's not into it, maybe take a closer look at your social circle and see if there are any other women who might be interested in women. There's nothing wrong with how you feel, whether it's a phase or not. Best of luck!
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