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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Is he warming to me and how can I get to know him better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - I met a cute guy in some of the fitness classes at the gym, and am starting to like him. He seems shy, so I sent him a fb friend request (2 mutual friends) in November and he accepted. I started trying to interact with him after that, but did no...

Do you think I have even the smallest chance with my long distance crush?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - I really suffer from a breakup...Okay, to be honest, it wasn't even a breakup. It was a rejection. My long distance crush is 21 and I’m turning 16 next month. The guy is simply awesome! I can tell you he's worth all my tears cause all my friends ...

Is my trainer at my group fitness class flirting with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I am not sure if a trainer at my group fitness class is flirting with me. He calls me out several times teasing me in front of the class about my technique. One class it was so bad and obvious I guess, that a couple of the guys in the class fe...

He's engaged but he seems possessive of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3239 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Me and my crush used to work together now we work for diff companies in the same building, on the same floor. I’m 31 female and my crush is 41 male (with a 12 yr old son) He flirts all the time with me, passes by my office daily, touches me in some ...

What could I say in a love letter to girl, without frightening her off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3240 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I need to write a love letter for this girl im going to ask out. Only thing is I dont want it to be one of those over the top corny love letters. I just want to tell her how I feel about her, a little romance is ok but i dont want to scare her off....

This girl has left me feeling confused. Can you help me ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3240 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I met a girl at work and it became apparent after a couple of weeks that we liked eachother. She had literally just split with her ex of four years. After expressing to each other that we liked each other we kissed and things were good. We went o...

I regret taking my Bf back. I've fallen for one of my other friends. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3241 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for about a year... And we've broken up quite a bit, but we ended up getting back together again. Today was one of those days, and he begged me to take him back. I agreed, which I really regret now. I no longer f...

Online dating and we clicked. But am I wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3241 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I met this guy online. We clicked and I enjoyed his conversation. Unfortunately, this man is 2800 miles away. After a couple weeks of phone conversation he decided that the distance was too much for him and that we could just remain as friends....

Am I falling out of love? Four years together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3242 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Hi there, first of all thank you for taking the time to give me advice! Right so I have been with my boyfriend for nearly four years. Bit of background of our relationship.. we met and I was actually with someone else but nothing happened we ...

Where do I stand in this? FWB but I get no respect and he insults me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3241 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - Im a first year student who has got into a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who doesn't respect me. We had drunken sex in the first couple of weeks of university a few times, we then didn't see each other for a while but now it has s...

Just online friends? But then he restarted being flirty. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - This is really very confusing but please bear with me. There is this guy who I have been chatting to for over 6 months, he is like my best friend but we have never met (we have discussed it, just not really gotten to it as I live 2 hours away by ...

Is she messing with my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3242 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - Hi, I have been in a long term relationship for years. A few months ago, a girl started working the same place as me. She's also in a relationship. We get on like best friends, we've told each other almost everything, some things we were too uns...

He's nice and he's flirty. But is he really just a player ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3235 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I've been speaking to this guy for a while on snapchat, he used to live nearby but has moved away (apparently only for a year but I am unsure). I never knew him when he lived here but we went to the same school. I just never seen him as he was a ...

How can I tell if the woman I like wants to be treated like a princess?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3244 days ago

26 December 2015 (M) - Ladies, can you help, me with a problem I have, am single, not a bad boy, the problem is, I don't know which women, to treat like a princess, an which ones, I should act like I don't care, the ones ,i treat fantastic, which has only been two, in ten ...

Why is it considered wrong to just want to date or just crush on people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3243 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - I have this problem where I had crushes on boys before and I always look forward to dating and having boyfriend until I actually got one. he wasn't a bad guy he did nothing to hurt me but he was sort of laughing a lot and kind of mock me by sayin...

Boyfriend's "catching" up with an old female friend is starting to bother me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

23 December 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has been spending a lot of time communicating with an old female friend from high school. Now we have been together for a little over 4 years, so we have a lot of trust in each other, but I feel as if this is wrong of him. I'll tel...

Why would a guy acts quiet all of the sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3247 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - So this guy has been talking to me alot lately, and he always flirtand always tries to get my attention. I always hang out with his friends and i talk to them alot but when he joins the group he suddenly acts quiet and seems upset. But when we are ...

We "click" but he's married! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3247 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hello. Thank you in advance for reading this. My dilemma is that I met a man with whom I have a strong connection, understanding and physical attraction....but unfortunately he is married with 2 children. We met via a study forum and met ...

Would this be a good opener to ask a nice girl going past me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3248 days ago

21 December 2015 (M) - Just a simple question. If I see a nice girl going past and I just say "excuse me, are you busy" or "are you in a hurry?". Wouldn't that be the best opener to judge if she's interested? Her response would show straight away if she has any interest...

How do I start a conversation without sounding too awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3249 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - My crush lives in Finland, and I live in America. We talk pretty often but I get the feeling that he doesn't like talking to me. He didn't answer my last text. How do I start a conversation without sounding too awkward? ...

Based on his actions does my crush feel the same as I about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3242 days ago

21 December 2015 (F) - My crush spent the night at my house as a sleep over before we went to bed, I noticed that he went into my room and kissed my cheek softly and whispered goodnight. Does this mean he likes me or he only thinks of me as a friend?...

How will I handle Christmas this year, because I have a crush on my stepbrother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3249 days ago

20 December 2015 (F) - My parents have been divorced for 6/7 years now and my dad now has a partner who has 3 kids. Consisting of 2 boys (let's call the youngest A and the eldest B) and 1 girl (let's call her C), my sister (let's call her D) moved in with them 3 years ago ...

Why doesn't she want to see the xmas party photos?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3240 days ago

20 December 2015 (M) - I'm well over 50 and work with a lovely girl in her late 20s. We have always got along very well but due to the age gap and personal circumstances I've never made a pass at her and never would. I'm married and she has a long term boyfriend, who she ...

Do the things my flirty colleague is doing show interest in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3246 days ago

19 December 2015 (M) - An Asian female colleague seems flirty toward me. Are these signs that she is attracted to me? 1) she was absent from work and the next day when I asked she said she had menstrual cramps so she took a sick leave 2) she leans with her should...

With a great partner but I'm tempted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

18 December 2015 (F) - Hi - I met my boyfriend 2 and a half years ago during the first week of university and we've been together since. He's one of the kindest people I've ever met and is also funny ect. Honestly he makes me so happy and loves me completely, which I ...

I really felt we had a connection. But he blocked me. What can I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

17 December 2015 (M) - Hello guys basically a few weeks days ago I was contact by another guy I really felt a connection. He was jaw droppingly hot to we exchanged some photos none were saved as it was on snapchat and the photo is deleted after 10 seconds and will inf...

Any chance of fixing something this broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

17 December 2015 (M) - I started speaking to a girl over the summer as we were living in the same university halls, we got on really well and connected instantly. we spoke everyday and she even mentioned that it took me ages to reply. we met up when we both had moved in...

Considering our long standing connection, chemistry and flirtationship why has he put me on the back burner now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

17 December 2015 (F) - So there is this guy I've been having a "flirtationship" with since the tenth grade now gone into my senior year of high school the chemistry and attraction between himself and I is undeniable from kisses, hugs and conversations we share. We jus...

What are signs that someone likes you? I think he likes me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3255 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - I'm 17, and I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. This doesn't bother me in the slightest because I'm not an innately sexual person or someone who displays feelings well. I've never asked out anybody that I've really fancied for fear of reje...

Did she mean it? Do you think a girl would say this to someone if she didn't mean it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

15 December 2015 (M) - This girl is not exactly a workmate, just a place where I visit every week or so, selling things there. She is also not someone I deal with, she works in another area. Anyhow we chat sometimes and she seems very friendly to me. The other day ...

Should I call my ex to come hang out for the Holidays?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3255 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - Should I call my ex to come hang out for the Holidays? My ex and I broke up two years ago at the end of Christmas. Each year when the Holidays come around, I find myself thinking of him and missing him. We've never seen each other after our brea...

I keep getting crushes on random people and fantasising about them. What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - What is wrong with me? Someone please help. I have a wonderful husband that treats me like a queen (been married 4 years and been together for 8) and all I keep doing is getting crushes on random people, fantasising about them and stalking them on ...

She plays hard to get, but what's this woman trying to accomplish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3255 days ago

13 December 2015 (M) - My work just keeps getting interesting with these cougars. So there's this good looking one who likes to play hard to get but then again if there's a work function she's always standing close to me OR the really weird part she makes sure she chat...

How do I get this guy in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

12 December 2015 (F) - Hi, i just wanted to know if there was anyone who could help me, to tell me how it is best to get a guy that hasn't been in my life properly to be finally in it. i haven't seem him in a while and i obviously still like him at times it reall...

Getting guys' attention--do they like me for looks or personality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3259 days ago

11 December 2015 (F) - So lately I've noticed that my behavior has been odd. I wasn't that type of girl who likes attention from guys since i was very shy. But i worked on my self esteem 2 years ago, and now I'm a very outgoing, confident and a loud person BUT who likes ...

Not over her, yet. How can I stop comparing every girl I date to my first love??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

9 December 2015 (M) - Its been 2.5 years since my last girlfriend left me for her high school love. We dated for over a year and she was the best girlfriend I ever had. She was perfect in all ways and for the first time the spark was there till the last week she dumped ...

I think he's interested but just very shy, should I tell him I'm interested too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3262 days ago

8 December 2015 (F) - I really like this guy.. I met him a couple of years ago through a mutual friend. Then we ended up having a class together at university. We became really good friends in that class, despite him having a serious girlfriend at that time. Since that ...

Please help me find a way to ask him out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

7 December 2015 (F) - Hi agony aunts, my question seems really silly but I seriously am clueless about approaching a crush and getting to know him better, and well anything that has to do with relationships honestly. Basically I am a senior in highschool and I have a co...

Is it a crush? attraction Do I take it further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3266 days ago

4 December 2015 (F) - I'm 23 years old. Its been 2 years since my first love break up. After that I was like not interested in any love stuffs. Now I met a guy online and he is near to my place. I'm getting attracted to him each and everyday definitely not by his looks. ...

Is he too young for me? What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3265 days ago

4 December 2015 (F) - im 31 and there is this guy who is 26, everytime i go into the store, he keeps flirting with me to the point that my bro thinks he will ask me out soon and a customer asked me was I his girlfriend…..the guy is a store manager at a grocery store…...

How do I get this married man out of my head?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3255 days ago

3 December 2015 (F) - I have posted a few times about this situation. I have fallen for a married man. I don't want to feel a thing for him. Let me be clear I have never allowed us to cross the line. I have tried to avoid him, but down to his work this is impossible. S...

My former friend: Should I text him, wait for him to contact me, or just let it slide away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

3 December 2015 (F) - Dear AgonyAunt,i am 16 and in grade 11 now. Today i saw my past crush/friend/classmate but i'm not sure that's really him. should i text him and find out or should i wait for him or should i just let that slide away? I unfriended him once 3 ye...

Is his rejection of me real?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3268 days ago

2 December 2015 (F) - The guy knows I like him, but he always says he "hates" me. Although he's like that on the outside with other people when we text and stuff, he says he only says that because it's "funny". He acts like a complete a-hole, but I still like him and...

How could I have such a dream, while sleeping in my boyfriend's arms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3269 days ago

1 December 2015 (F) - I have a really great boyfriend, love him to the point where even the thought of hurting him fills me with guilt. The other day, we fell asleep after doing chores and as he was holding me, I had the most graphic dream I have ever had featurin...