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writes:Dear AgonyAunt,i am 16 and in grade 11 now. Today i saw my past crush/friend/classmate but i'm not sure that's really him. should i text him and find out or should i wait for him or should i just let that slide away?I unfriended him once 3 years ago (but i add him back later)when i asked him for a closure for the relationship and he didn't take it very well. We used to like each other but we were never in a romantic relationship or hang out and acted only like friends so we have a really awkward relationship.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (4 December 2015):
I agree with Denizen on this. At your age friendships do drift apart because you’re transitioning in to adults who have your own choices to make in life. I had good friends at 11 or 12 that I’d drifted away from by 16. The friendships that stayed strong were those where we kept contact, still had lots in common and still found that we enjoyed each other’s company. I think this friendship came to an end, so move on and look to the future.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (3 December 2015):
 I think you are probably living too much inside your head. Get out there and have some fun. Stop agonising about the past.
There may be many friends or boyfriends in your future but you will never meet them if you are looking back.
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