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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Hello guys basically a few weeks days ago I was contact by another guy I really felt a connection.He was jaw droppingly hot to we exchanged some photos none were saved as it was on snapchat and the photo is deleted after 10 seconds and will inform you if someone screenshot the picture,but after that night he blocked me on snapchat and after texting and contacting him on Facebook he blocked me on those too.I'm pretty upset about it for some reason I'm guessing I just really liked him after one night of talking I have no idea what to do next or anything I have no real way of contacting him he probably didn't block my number but I don't want to look like a weird stalker please help :)
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reader, anonem +, writes (19 December 2015):
Please leave him alone. Move on.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2015): He blocked you because he felt bad about doing it and regretted exchanging photos. Maybe he had a little bit to drink or argued with his girlfriend and went on the internet to chat up other people.
He probably blocked you because if his girlfriend got into his personal things she would find out about this. If you're blocked you can't send any more messages that she may come across.
Don't beat yourself up about this you just got caught up in something he shouldn't have done to begin with.
As for wondering what you can do to get him to talk to you again I really think you should forget about him. He has a girlfriend and it's not fair on her. It isn't your fault but don't try and go there. Just because he is hot it doesn't make him the kind of person you want in your life because really he isn't very nice is he.
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female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 December 2015):
Is there anything you can do?
Yes, stay away, ignore, block, delete, remove him from everything. While he might have had a "moment" of curiosity he isn't accepting of that side of his sexuality OR of yours.
And while he MIGHT have wanted to go further and USED you to see if that is what he really wants, he wasn't looking for anything long term.
He blocked you for a reason. Because he HAS a partner already and because it he a cheating asshat. He was afraid of getting caught!
WANT more for yourself and your relationships than just to date a "hot" looking guy. Look for someone with depth, who is perfectly fine with his (and yours) sexuality, who can GIVE you a partnership, who shares your values and morals, instead of this twat who only looked to use you as his personal little guinea pig or crash-test dummy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2015): This is an update to my question is just found out he has a girlfriend I'm sure so that could be why as he is bi curious but not out and I'm bi and not out so this is probably why but still is there anything else I can do ?
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female
reader, chigirl +, writes (18 December 2015):
Uh, yeah, he doesnt want to talk to you! Duh! He blocked you, so who cares how bad YOU want to talk to him, HE does not want to talk to you! Respect that. Anything else is creepy and, yes, stalking.
What you do is you walk away and find something else that can occupy you and interest you. There are tons of people on the globe. Shouldn't be that hard to find someone who wants to talk to you just as bad as you want to talk to them.
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